life is so not fair

Hi Hun, I am so sorry for you and what your family is going through.  You know I am a phone call away if you need to talk.  Or I can stop over.  I am still on afternoons this week though.  I just don't get either why life can be so unfair.   Love ya girly,

Hey sweetie thank you......... I talked to him and there gonna decide today what to do he thought radiation and chemo....... there gonna put a stint in his lungs today so he can at last eat. or what ever Iguess.  talk to you soon marsh

Marsha, I got so emotional reading your post. Don't worry about not sounding strong to your Uncle....Let your Uncle know how much you love him. I know what you mean about the "good " people being taken away from us, that's how it always seems. There's really no words, but please know that I'm thinking about you & your family and I will keep you all in my prayers.   Hang in there......Kelly

Hey sweets thanks so much. 

(((Marsha))) I'm so sorry about your Uncle and I will keep him in my prayers.  I know it's hard to understand why some things happen and we will probably never understand until we get to heaven and can ask God ourselves why things are the way they are.   Take care and hang in there.  Your family is in my thoughts. (((Hugs))) Michelle

thanks................

So sorry you are having to go through this...  I cant even begine to imagine..  Good thoughts and prayers to you and your family for peace ans strength!

thanks hun

Marsha, Been there, done that. Do the best you can every day, let your Uncle know you love him, cherish each moment. Then you have good thoughts and memories to last forever. Let go and cry when you need to, don't try to stuff it and hold it all in.   (I do that way too much and it EXPLODES on me.)  HUGS, Karen, Laurie and Princess Nemi

thank you so much sweetie ithink a good cry is what i need