You all decide if you want me to stay.

Laurie J.
on 8/4/08 11:24 pm - St Croix Falls, WI
You are staying...that is it...no debate...no questions...you are part of this family and we support you in these troubling times and will hold you up, and we can't do that if you aren't here!
 
309/295/154.6/150 = Highest/Surgery Date/Current/Goal
Kristy A.
on 8/4/08 11:31 pm - South Burbs, MN
I hope you don't think I was saying that you've jeopordized anyone here when I posted this reply to your "I WAS SCAMMED POST" :

"Hey, just curious, does he know about this site ? If so, could he be watching what you're saying? Just wanted to put that out there, incase."

That question/comment was soley out of concern for your safety, and if he would be lurking, adding fuel to his fire if he sees you talking about him. Ugh, hope you didn't think I meant anything bad by it. I certainly don't want you to go anywhere, you have so many friends here, and you need & deserve the support.

Kristy   (weight loss below does not include 16lbs lost during pre WLS diet)
START:  325                            Day of Surgery :309                          GOAL:  180


rickpete
on 8/4/08 11:47 pm - Elk River, MN
Diane:

I don't know you, but I have read some of the kind and caring posts you have made here on the MN board over the last several months.  The supportive posts above clearly are a positive reflection back on what you have given to others here.  Take solace in that. 

Sadly, the world is a harsh place for sweet and gentle souls like you.  People without scruples or a smidgen of human caring take advantage of people who are only searching for love.  You are doing the right thing with law enforcement on the money side of things, but you also need to take time to heal from the hurt that he caused you.

I am a vicious self-critic when I have made a mistake or I think I may have caused emotional harm to someone else.  From your post, I would guess we share that particular trait.  I might suggest that you use some of that gentle and caring nature of yours to temper your self-doubt and self-criticism.  Also, wallow a bit in all of the comments here from people who truly appreciate you and want you to stay, including me.

Take care,

RP
Laurie J.
on 8/4/08 11:54 pm - St Croix Falls, WI
I PM'd you - and I meant everything I said in that...we love you girl, and we really don't want to see you hurt, but if you are, we are here to help you get your feet back under you and to help you stand strong...

Love ya!
 
309/295/154.6/150 = Highest/Surgery Date/Current/Goal
Kathy O.
on 8/5/08 12:00 am - Minnetonka, MN

My personal opinnion is I think you should stay.  I really think you need some extra support and love from all of us right now and want to let you know I'm here. 


Start 323 ~ Current 199 ~

sweetsue617
on 8/5/08 12:23 am - Thunder Bay, Canada
Diane, Honey~

To heck with whoever told you that you might have jeopardized people on the board!  As has been so suscinctly stated here--we're all adults and can look out for ourselves!

You need the support and love that this board offers--so stay and bask in the support! You feel badly enough about things that have
transpired without being guilt-tripped about the board. Sweetie, just look after yourself. Go to coffee where you'll get the hugs you probably sorely need!

Here's a long-distance one:   (((((HUG)))) and
**SUE**
doodlebug
on 8/5/08 12:43 am - MN
I missed the issue since I'm not on here every day anymore.  But if I get the gest of this right, anyone can find someone on this site just by googleing their name.  It all comes up, that's why I stopped using my real name and went to my nickname.  I didn't want everyone who planned to attend the high school reunion to google me and track everything I wrote on here.  Also if I was able to attend (I wasn't) I wanted to talk about other things.   
Blessed are those who can give without remembering
And take without forgetting.


Don't take life too seriously; No one gets out alive.

May You Fly with Eagles
Run with Wolves

Walk with Buffalos

and

Always be my Friend


doodlebug
on 8/5/08 12:47 am - MN
9/25/03
I got this e-mail from Google saying I can't be removed from their site, this doesn't make me to happy.

Hi Gwen,

Thank you for your note. We recognize the annoyance that this situation
may cause you, but there is nothing that Google can do to remove the
offending content without the cooperation of the site administrator.

Google is a provider of information, not a mediator. Even if we were able
to eliminate the offending page from our index, it would still be on the
Web. Every few weeks our robots sweep the Web for content. If the site is
still available on the Web when we crawl, we will likely pick it up and
add it to our index again. Only an administrator can, by including code
that blocks our robots or placing a request with us, prevent his/her page
from being listed. Without administrator cooperation we cannot exclude
material available on the Internet from our index.

Please contact us if you are able to obtain the cooperation of the site's
administrator. If the offending material is removed, Google's search
results will mirror that change shortly after it is made on the site in
question. We are sorry that we cannot be of more immediate assistance on
this matter.

Regards,
The Google Team
Blessed are those who can give without remembering
And take without forgetting.


Don't take life too seriously; No one gets out alive.

May You Fly with Eagles
Run with Wolves

Walk with Buffalos

and

Always be my Friend


Connie D.
on 8/5/08 3:45 am
Diane.....as much as you need us we need YOU more!! Please don't give anyone the power to make you leave us!!

YOU haven't done anything wrong honey!! It was done to you!!

Anyone of us could have been a victim to this creep!!

Please PM me anytime.....I will support you and help you anyway I can.

Love you sweet lady!!  connie d
Frozen_Peach
on 8/5/08 3:55 am
I musta missed something - why on Earth would anyone want you to leave???

shee****hought we were all friends here!!  You lean on us as needed girl...what this person did to you is awful - just awful...you better stay - we are here for you!

PS:  Glad to read you are gonna fight - YGG!

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