Go ahead... what stinks ??
Oh you're SO close to getting the F bomb thrown your way, but who could do that to a lady with the word "sweet" in her name? 
JK
Ok, of course grateful that DH has a job, however he is in the printing industry and Mpls has a gazillion print shops. He is too scared to push management for day hours, and the thing is they NEED him. Don't need details, but it's true. He just isn't aggressive at all with inquires like that, which is part of what's frustrating.
C A U T I O N ------- TMI AHEAD!!!
And for the medication, I'm on Wellbutrin, not a sex drive or "O" killer, but it isn't enough since having Lauren. Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Cymbalta all work great for me, but not only kill the drive, but kill the "O." After losing our first baby and trying like mad for 2 years to get pregnant, the NO FUN sex where it's for procreation purposes only really, I'm tired of the "just do it to make baby or just do it cause he wants to" sex. And all those medications kill the O. I could handle the no drive, as long as there is a prize at the end, but if not- forget it. I was to the point of I can't just keep doing it for him, and not get enjoyment myself. So weigh the options, the medicine was putting a damper on things, I was hopeful I would do ok with Wellbutrin only, but apparently not. I am trying another medication, Buspar, have been on for 3 weeks. Hasn't helped my mood, but isn't a drive or O killer, so we'll see.
And now I have somsething else to gripe about, I'm hot (cause I'm fat) and my foster dog is frightened of storms and won't get his drooly, panting mouth off my leg, or move away from me, and then I have Miss Heater, laying on my lap drinking a bottle. Could I get ANY more uncomfortable?
F IT!
JKOk, of course grateful that DH has a job, however he is in the printing industry and Mpls has a gazillion print shops. He is too scared to push management for day hours, and the thing is they NEED him. Don't need details, but it's true. He just isn't aggressive at all with inquires like that, which is part of what's frustrating.
C A U T I O N ------- TMI AHEAD!!!
And for the medication, I'm on Wellbutrin, not a sex drive or "O" killer, but it isn't enough since having Lauren. Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Cymbalta all work great for me, but not only kill the drive, but kill the "O." After losing our first baby and trying like mad for 2 years to get pregnant, the NO FUN sex where it's for procreation purposes only really, I'm tired of the "just do it to make baby or just do it cause he wants to" sex. And all those medications kill the O. I could handle the no drive, as long as there is a prize at the end, but if not- forget it. I was to the point of I can't just keep doing it for him, and not get enjoyment myself. So weigh the options, the medicine was putting a damper on things, I was hopeful I would do ok with Wellbutrin only, but apparently not. I am trying another medication, Buspar, have been on for 3 weeks. Hasn't helped my mood, but isn't a drive or O killer, so we'll see.
And now I have somsething else to gripe about, I'm hot (cause I'm fat) and my foster dog is frightened of storms and won't get his drooly, panting mouth off my leg, or move away from me, and then I have Miss Heater, laying on my lap drinking a bottle. Could I get ANY more uncomfortable?
F IT!
Kristy (weight loss below does not include 16lbs lost during pre WLS diet)
START: 325 Day of Surgery :309 GOAL: 180
"Open mouth--insert foot' or however that cliche goes. I guess since I'm not walking in your shoes I don't have an right to comment on things affecting your life.
I will just say I hope your hubby's employer realizes what a gem they have and give him a raise accordingly!
Good luck with the anti-depressants. I hope you find one that works in all ways.
((HUGS))
**SUE**
I will just say I hope your hubby's employer realizes what a gem they have and give him a raise accordingly!
Good luck with the anti-depressants. I hope you find one that works in all ways.
((HUGS))
**SUE**
I'm right there with ya with the antidepressants and sex. You're either happy and don't want to have sex, or you're depressed and don't want to have sex because you hate life. You're damned if you do and you're damned if you don't. I'm not willing to give up an antidepressant that finally, finally works. It would impact a lot more than my sex life. My poor, poor husband. I feel horribly for him. But what can you do?
Please spay and neuter your pets!
I'm giving this current medication 3 more weeks (it's been 3) and if nothing, I guess I'll suck it up and go back to one of the ones that was worked, but killed the sex drive and "O." Stupid medications are relationship killers I swear! I don't want to be the "fine, just go for it" wife, I want to have fun & Os too.
Kristy (weight loss below does not include 16lbs lost during pre WLS diet)
START: 325 Day of Surgery :309 GOAL: 180
OMG! I can't believe someone else had the same thought as I did when I pictures demolishing something so evil! Office Space! I LOVE THAT MOVIE!!!!!!!
I think you should keep the IV pole and use it as a festivus pole. Festivus for the rest of us. (Seinfeld - sorry! I watch way too much tv)
I love the idea of dragging it behind your jeep. If your strength is up for it, a hammer to it might do you some good, too! Make it a party! Beat the crap out of the stinkin pole!
There is nothing that smells worse than the feeding tube crap. My sympathies.
I think you should keep the IV pole and use it as a festivus pole. Festivus for the rest of us. (Seinfeld - sorry! I watch way too much tv)
I love the idea of dragging it behind your jeep. If your strength is up for it, a hammer to it might do you some good, too! Make it a party! Beat the crap out of the stinkin pole!
There is nothing that smells worse than the feeding tube crap. My sympathies.
This is an easy one for me...................
Ever since I started my pre op liquid diet ( about 3 weeks ago) my
ARM PITS STINK.
What the sam heck is goin' on! It's crazy. I don't know it it's the change in my body chemistry or what...but they always stink.
I wash my pits several times each day, and use different deoderants.
I am really hoping now that I am on pureed foods it will get better.
Natalie
aka stinky pits
Ever since I started my pre op liquid diet ( about 3 weeks ago) my
ARM PITS STINK.
What the sam heck is goin' on! It's crazy. I don't know it it's the change in my body chemistry or what...but they always stink.
I wash my pits several times each day, and use different deoderants.
I am really hoping now that I am on pureed foods it will get better.
Natalie
aka stinky pits
LA,
Yep, your feeling better.......
What sucks for me.......Mine is more on a personal note........Family issues with my Brother & Parents.......I would just like to get along, but it will never happen........Between verbal abuse, alcohloism, and now harmful threats, our relationship is over........40 years of this crap is enough......So that's what suck's in my life......
The jeep thing sounds crazy funny.......Do it, video tape it......That would be so funny......
Kelly
Yep, your feeling better.......
What sucks for me.......Mine is more on a personal note........Family issues with my Brother & Parents.......I would just like to get along, but it will never happen........Between verbal abuse, alcohloism, and now harmful threats, our relationship is over........40 years of this crap is enough......So that's what suck's in my life......
The jeep thing sounds crazy funny.......Do it, video tape it......That would be so funny......
Kelly
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