Post WLS Flirting

This question is related to WLS, because I never would have asked this as a 246 pound woman.

How do you know if a guy is flirting with you, or just being nice? Everyone seems to be a lot nicer since I'm a semi-"normal" weight, both men and women. But how do you tell the difference in the type of attention you're now getting?

That's a darn good question, Farrah, and when you get the answer, please share!

Do you think everyone flirts with you???  No of course not so when that little "flirt O meter " goes off your probably right.

We are treated different forsure... sad but true......    Enjoy the attention within its bounds of respect and WAAAAAAAAHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO


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I dont' have a flirtometer. I don't believe I've ever been flirted with, other than my husband. That's why I asked the question as to how you can tell. I'd like a little extra boost :)

Well, the one time that I had no doubt in my mind was when I was up singing Karoke and this guy lifts up his shirt, rubbed his nipple and stuck his tongue out...guess that was blatent enough for me to realize that he was flirting...other than that, I struggle trying to figure out if it is just being nice or if there is actual flirting going on.

 I think even *I* would have gotten that one. hehehehe

OMG! That's funny!

I still have to convince myself that whispers and quiet comments I hear out in public aren't happening in reference to my size - you know, the "there goes Moby Dick" kinds of comments we all probably heard and tried to ignore before!

Well, I found it VERY HARD to comprehend when I thought I was getting "flirted with" or whatnot... but I like Linda Anne's thought - that if you think that might be flirting?  There's a good chance it is!

Sometimes it's obvious, sometimes it's not, but I have come to the point where I'll just ASSUME someone is flirting - and I just smile like heck and enjoy every bit of it!  If I'm wrong and the person WASN'T flirting with me?  Well, at least HE got a smile out of the deal, and I'm left thinking someone just flirted with me!  IT'S ALL GOOD!!!