I found a computer very very long sorry
Hey there guys I found a computer wooohoooo. Connie THANK YOU so much for listening to me yesterday I really needed that and thanks for posting for me. Anita Sorry I keep calling I know your busy call me yesterday when you called I was dealing with my brother but please feel free to call me again. I only have my phone off when I am in with my dad and when I am out of his room it is back on. I love all you guys looking at all the support you guys are giving me all the prayers is great I THANK YOU!!!!!!!
Now for the rest of the story ( Isn't that what Paul Harvey says) LOLOL
My dad is my stepdad all though we don't ever consider it that way he met my mom when she had me in the hospital and was with her for 13 years until he got smart and divorced her dumb butt anyway he is my dad no matter what. I brother now thinks it's all about him and what not. He told the DR's and nurses I wasn't family and He is the only next of kin. You guys that killed me if he would of been here when the nurses told me that I would more than likely be in jail. Speaking of Jail My brother was gonna call the cops on me because I went to my dads house took his wallet and keys so I had them and he said I stole it. What a major ***** Anyways I called a lawyer and I am going to meet with him today to get papers so when my dad wakes up he can sign them leaving me in charge. My brother has major major issues and isn't able to make decisions on his own. He is 32 and still lives at home with dad. He has stolen tons of money from my dad and what not and now I need to be the voice of my dad. Security here is aware of my brother and the nurses and Dr;s know that they need to do what is best for my dad reguardless of what the ***** says..... My dad now he got home sunday night from GA at 11pm and at 3am he had a massive massive heart attack... my stupid brother (because he knows it all) didn't take him in to the hospital until 9pm that night and thats why he is so bad. My brother thought he was having heartburn and gave my dad a bunch of crap to take and when it didn't work tried to get him to go in and finally got him there. They got him to Fargo and he had his main arterie was bleeding so bad thay had to stop that before they could do surgery. They ended up putting in 3 stints for now until he strong enough for surgery. He needs a breathing machine because he is not able to breathe on his own. I am able to go in every hour for 10 min thats all the allow. Sometimes they let me stay in there as lond as I want and thats nice. What the hell anyways. My dad has been through so much and it was way to much for him to handle with my uncle and stuff. Theres so much more but I will get into that later. I am gonna try to get another quick nap in before I go to the lawyer. Now that I found this computer I will check it instead of listening to all the people in the waiting room. wooooohoooooo. THANKS again guys you are great and my dad needs all the prayers he can right now.
Marsha
Now for the rest of the story ( Isn't that what Paul Harvey says) LOLOL
My dad is my stepdad all though we don't ever consider it that way he met my mom when she had me in the hospital and was with her for 13 years until he got smart and divorced her dumb butt anyway he is my dad no matter what. I brother now thinks it's all about him and what not. He told the DR's and nurses I wasn't family and He is the only next of kin. You guys that killed me if he would of been here when the nurses told me that I would more than likely be in jail. Speaking of Jail My brother was gonna call the cops on me because I went to my dads house took his wallet and keys so I had them and he said I stole it. What a major ***** Anyways I called a lawyer and I am going to meet with him today to get papers so when my dad wakes up he can sign them leaving me in charge. My brother has major major issues and isn't able to make decisions on his own. He is 32 and still lives at home with dad. He has stolen tons of money from my dad and what not and now I need to be the voice of my dad. Security here is aware of my brother and the nurses and Dr;s know that they need to do what is best for my dad reguardless of what the ***** says..... My dad now he got home sunday night from GA at 11pm and at 3am he had a massive massive heart attack... my stupid brother (because he knows it all) didn't take him in to the hospital until 9pm that night and thats why he is so bad. My brother thought he was having heartburn and gave my dad a bunch of crap to take and when it didn't work tried to get him to go in and finally got him there. They got him to Fargo and he had his main arterie was bleeding so bad thay had to stop that before they could do surgery. They ended up putting in 3 stints for now until he strong enough for surgery. He needs a breathing machine because he is not able to breathe on his own. I am able to go in every hour for 10 min thats all the allow. Sometimes they let me stay in there as lond as I want and thats nice. What the hell anyways. My dad has been through so much and it was way to much for him to handle with my uncle and stuff. Theres so much more but I will get into that later. I am gonna try to get another quick nap in before I go to the lawyer. Now that I found this computer I will check it instead of listening to all the people in the waiting room. wooooohoooooo. THANKS again guys you are great and my dad needs all the prayers he can right now.
Marsha
As a stepmother myself (and a birth mom and an adopted mom), I can say that the word step before mother or father is a special one. Stepparents and children have a unique relationship. And only those in this situation understand the enormous amount of emotion that comes with it. Birth family - we have no choice. Step family - we have a choice. We can choose to walk away from the "step family" and not refer to them as steps. But birth family - what do you say? Yeah, they have the same genetic makeup, but they aren't family? From this step mom to you, the step daughter, I get it. The relationship you have with your dad is one that can't easily come out in words. And your love for him shines through. Don't feel like you need to explain to anyone that you are "only the stepdaughter". You should say "I"m lucky enough to have him in my life as my dad".
A gazillion hugs to you at this time. Being up there with the dink of the year has to be tough. I'm sure your dad knows you are there and that you will move heaven and earth to give him what he needs. I can't explain why this crap happens. It just does. Know you are loved. And supported. And always in my prayers, even when you don't ask for it.
Be sure to take care of yourself, too! Because you can't do a good job caring for him if you aren't well. So get as much rest as you need. Things at home will be taken care of. Concentrate on today; worry about tomorrow later. And stop by the local post office and pick up the can of whip-a!@ that I sent to you. :) Love Ya Marsha!
kelly
A gazillion hugs to you at this time. Being up there with the dink of the year has to be tough. I'm sure your dad knows you are there and that you will move heaven and earth to give him what he needs. I can't explain why this crap happens. It just does. Know you are loved. And supported. And always in my prayers, even when you don't ask for it.
Be sure to take care of yourself, too! Because you can't do a good job caring for him if you aren't well. So get as much rest as you need. Things at home will be taken care of. Concentrate on today; worry about tomorrow later. And stop by the local post office and pick up the can of whip-a!@ that I sent to you. :) Love Ya Marsha!
kelly
(((((MARSHA)))))....sooooo sorry that you have had to go thru this!! You sure have had your plate full! MANY, MANY prayers
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Oh Marsha my heart is breaking for you! You have been through so much already and to just get more seems so unfair. I know how it feels to have a Dad in the hospital with a heart attack. My father just about a year or so had 3 heart attacks within month of each other!!! You have my thoughts and prayers and I so hope that things get better for your Dad, and your family. If you need anything at all please let me know or if you just need to chat give me a call!!
HUGS Sweetie!!!
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Marsha,
So sorry you are going thru this. I will send up prayers and well wishes for comfort and peace for your dad and yourself.
Kelly is right on the step-relationship. I am a 'step-mother' and I love my 'step' kids as if they are my own. All you can do at this point is continue to be you and love your dad as you always have and take care of things that you can.
And come here when ever you can for the support that you need!
(((HUGS)))
CarolN
So sorry you are going thru this. I will send up prayers and well wishes for comfort and peace for your dad and yourself.
Kelly is right on the step-relationship. I am a 'step-mother' and I love my 'step' kids as if they are my own. All you can do at this point is continue to be you and love your dad as you always have and take care of things that you can.
And come here when ever you can for the support that you need!
(((HUGS)))
CarolN
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