Visiting with an update

Stacey H.
on 11/10/08 12:43 am - Brooklyn Park, MN

Well, it's been so long, I'm sure half of you never heard of me! I'm Stacey, 3 years post op. I left this forum over a year ago to hang out at the post op pregnancy board. Sooooo much has happened since I've been gone....lots and lots of struggles. I think I had it way to easy post op and the problems that usually arise, arose much later.

If you remember, I found myself unexpectedly pregnant at 41, 4 years after I had my tubes tied. Andrew is 10 months old now and is the joy of my life! At the beginning of the summer, my husband of 21 years left me and the 5 kids in favor of a single, care-free life. That plunged me into the absolute depths! I DO NOT eat like a post WLS patient anymore. I'm terrified of what I'm doing to myself. I forgot all the rules (or rather, they don't seem to matter anymore)
I pray everyday that my family can be restored after 5 months.

Anyway, I'm coming back here for some encouragement. I would love to have the passion that I used to in the early days when I lived by the WLS bible. I'm also here to offer my support to the newbies and oldies too. WLS is a miracle and it really can save your life!

Stacey proud mama to Aleah, Allison, Austin, AnnikaAndrew

Lorri K.
on 11/10/08 1:21 am - Elk River, MN
Welcome back. It sounds like you've have some struggles over the past year. I give you lots of credit for even getting back on board. Stay positive get those habits back in place. Vividly Remember what life was like before WLS, hopefully that will help.

Lorri
    

Stacey H.
on 11/10/08 2:29 am - Brooklyn Park, MN
Thanks for the welcome Lorri. Nobody said life was going to be struggle-free. I just hope I can hop back on the bandwagon and right my wrongs!
Darla S.
on 11/10/08 1:21 am - Maple Grove, MN
Wow - I won't bother sharing my thoughts on a man that could leave someone under such cir****tances, but - wow.

As for your eating issues, I don't think anyone here could begin to blame you for turning to your "old" best friend for some comfort, given the cir****tances.  But I APPLAUD you for coming here to share what's going on and seek some support!  That alone shows incredible will - it's EASY to do the comfort eating thing, NOT SO MUCH to kick yourself in the butt and try to get that one aspect of your life back on track after all you've been through!

I hope you find some of the support and encouragement you need here.  CONGRATS to you for seeking it!!!


  Imperfect does not = unsuccessful

Stacey H.
on 11/10/08 2:31 am - Brooklyn Park, MN
Hi Darla, I'm sure your words toward my situation are the same as mine! I'm also glad that I'm making an effort to come back here and talk about eating, weight and accountability. Thanks for your support.
Michelle G.
on 11/10/08 1:53 am - Duluth, MN

Hi Stacey!!  Welcome back!   I feel your struggle only I have no excuse for slipping back into my old habits.   I went back to the gym last week and realized I'd gained 8 lbs in a couple of months.   I vowed to go back to eating protein and very little carbs.   That was on Thursday and so far I've done well.  I am already feeling my stomach is limiting the amt I eat.   I think it always told me I was full but I just wasn't paying attention anymore.   I had to really think hard to think of the foods I ate in the beginning but I'm starting to remember the tricks.   Hopefully we can both get back on track.   Give those kids big hugs from us! 

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Stacey H.
on 11/10/08 2:27 am - Brooklyn Park, MN
Thank you sweetie. It's so hard, isn't it? It's so easy to ride the wave of the first couple years post WLS. I am going to try really really hard to get things going again. Good luck to you and hugs to sweet Sadie!
Sandra N.
on 11/10/08 3:46 am - MN
Hiya Stacey!  I remember you!  WOW!  You have been thru alot!~Soooo sorry!  I am glad you are back!  What a beautiful boy you have!!!

I hope and pray you are able to find the strength to get back on track.  And stick around, get to coffee's!!! 

HUGS

 ~Sandie~ -147!!WLS:12-12-06:Preop 268,Ht.5'4",BMI 44.9
  Click on link to see my journey!!! 
http://www.onetruemedia.com/my_shared?z=2bfaca5561a1d558fceb
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"Do unto others as you'd have done to you"~ The Golden Rule to Live by!
You are what you EAT and WHO you hang out with!  Choices=Outcome~ what's YOUR choice??
I'm not perfect but I am going to die trying!!!

 
  



Stacey H.
on 11/10/08 10:46 pm - Brooklyn Park, MN
Thanks for the prayers. BTW, you're looking great!
sweetsue617
on 11/10/08 5:20 am - Thunder Bay, Canada
Hi Stacey!  I remember  you!!   Welcome back!

I know that WLS can escalate fertility, but even with tubes tied you got pregnant?!    Your little guy was sure meant to be!!  And I won't say anything about your ex.

You can rekindle your WLS enthusiasm! (Have you tried the 5-day pouch test?)  Go to the coffees and meet some of the folks!

I'm so glad you're back!  


(((HUGS)))
**SUE**

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