sad sad sad

Marsha F.
on 11/18/08 5:44 am
I got a phone call late sunday night which i did not get until monday morning my dad had 3 more heart attacks sunday night.  Jer and I went to Fargo monday first thing and I am going back up thurs and I think we will be shutting machines off...... My dad is no longer with us the way it is the only thing keeping him alive is the machine he has so much brain damage........ I am so sad, and it hurts so bad......Thank you everyone for the phone calls, emails and support....... I will never forget you guys
 
Sandra N.
on 11/18/08 5:49 am - MN
Hon!  My heart, thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family in this difficult time!!

HUGE HUGS!!!

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Kristy A.
on 11/18/08 6:03 am - South Burbs, MN
Marsha- I'm sorry you're hurting. It's got to be so hard going through this with your dad.

Kristy   (weight loss below does not include 16lbs lost during pre WLS diet)
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Jennifer G.
on 11/18/08 6:34 am - Minnetonka, MN
My heart goes out to you in your time of need. Thoughts and prayers heading your way!

Jennifer

 

    
Karen H.
on 11/18/08 7:26 am - Minneapolis, MN
Marsha,

Sending hugs and hope that you can get throught the horrible pain of letting go. When the person we love is no longer that person, just the body there not the love and personality that you love, letting them go is the best for all.  I do not say these things lightly, I have been there and I know exactly how you feel.   Just remember, you will always have your memories, love, pictures and you know that your DAD knows you did the best for him.

Great big hugs from Princess Nemi and all of us,

Karen


sweetsue617
on 11/18/08 7:28 am - Thunder Bay, Canada
Ohhh Marsha~
My heart breaks for you. I'm glad that you were able to spend some quality time with him, and be comforted in the knowledge that he loved you. You were a chosen child--and how  wonderful is it that you shared such a deep love for each other?!


I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

((HUGS))
**SUE**

ltlkim9424
on 11/18/08 8:09 am - Lakeville, MN
I am so sorry. I will pray for you and your family. I did home care for many years and saw families go through this and I had to watch both a grandma and grandfather go like this as well. I would never wi**** on anyone but I know you were able to say your goodbyes and hopefully he is at peace because that will help you be at peace as well. Hugs!!
Kiba0003
on 11/18/08 8:27 am - Corcoran, MN
I am so sorry Marsha!! I can only imagine how painful this time is for you. All I can say is this too will pass... and the strong love you have for your dad is the reason you feel so deeply. Cherish that love and I am sure he cherished it too!

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Lorri K.
on 11/18/08 9:57 am - Elk River, MN
Oh Marsha, I am so sorry for this time in your life. God will bring you through it.

Lorri
    

lafoster
on 11/18/08 10:04 am - Rosemount, MN

(((Marsha))) Hugs to your family too.  so sorry to hear this.

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