sad sad sad

Darla S.
on 11/18/08 10:12 am - Maple Grove, MN
Honey, I'm so sorry you're having to face this...  I do understand all the emotions and thoughts that go along with taking a loved one off life support - we had to make the decision to do so with my closest cousin when he and I were only 26.  The doubts, the second guesses, the hoping for a miracle.... 

Just know in  your heart that you are doing the right thing.  If he is so far gone that life wouldn't be what he wanted it to be, then letting him go by removing the machines can be the kindest, most loving thing to do.

God bless you, sweetie.  You'll get past the hurt some day.  That's when the smiles and happy memories will take over again.


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tinkerbell025
on 11/18/08 11:20 am - Fargo, ND
Marsha,
Sorry to hear the news on your Father. Sending well wishes and thoughts your way. May your days begin to be of more comforting knowing when he is past the gates he will be in a much better place.
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Farrah W
on 11/18/08 11:44 am - Tallahassee, FL
My heart hurts for you. I'm so sorry.

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Diamond Girl
on 11/18/08 12:31 pm - Ham Lake, MN
(((Marsha)))
You know what, you have been dealt a really sucky year! My goodness.

Prayers going up for you & your family!
sngglnclos
on 11/18/08 10:28 pm - sw burbs, MN
My heart goes out to you!  I will keep you and your family in prayers!!
Lori A.
on 11/19/08 1:03 am - Duluth, MN
*hugs* and as much strength as I can send this way through prayers.  I went through this with both mom and dad... it's not easy but sometimes life just isn't.  Have faith that he is loving you through it all and that you will be together again someday.

*major loving hugs!*


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Erika S.
on 11/19/08 1:10 am - Duluth, MN
Marsha,

I am so sorry to hear about your dad.  Sending prayers your way for you and your family during this difficult time. 

Erika

     




                    

Lori Pool
on 11/19/08 4:45 am - Chanhassen, MN
Marsh- I am so VERY sorry. May God hold you at this time with healing hugs to help your heart heal. If you need to talk let me know.

Hugs,
Lori
 
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