OT....feeling lonely and sad

Connie D.
on 5/9/09 10:39 am

Last night I had to break off my relationship with my boyfriend of six months.
I am having an emotional day....kind of up and down.
It is really for the best. He is a good man but there are issues that I cannot deal with anymore.
If I didn't care it would be so much easier!!
I have gotten close to his family especially his mother. What wonderful people. I will miss our get togethers and all the kindness they have shown me.
Makes me sad....hurts like hell!!!
Thanks for letting me vent......

Love and hugs to you my frioends....connie d

Therese W.
on 5/9/09 11:02 am - Cottage Grove, MN

RNY on 05/04/09

HUGS, Connie!! I know that's hard, but if it's for the best, keep focusing on that. You've worked so hard to make yourself better and healthier, you should surround yourself with people who will nurture that.

I can do this, I can do this, I can do this - AND SO CAN YOU!!

Therese

Connie D.
on 5/9/09 11:12 am

RNY on 08/29/07

Thank you Therese....you are right. I do need to surround myself with friends and family.I did go to St Cloud coffee group this morning. It was nice to be around so many caring people. It helped ease the pain for awhile.
It is just going to take time to heal my heavy heart.

Hugs....connie d

WestieMom
on 5/9/09 11:03 am

RNY on 06/24/09

I'm sorry you are sad....

I hope tomorrow is a better day for you.
Sue

WestieMom

Connie D.
on 5/9/09 11:13 am

RNY on 08/29/07

Thank you Sue...it is a sad time....tomorrow I will be with my daughter and grandchildren...that will be a happy time!!

Hugs....connie d

lindamomof3
on 5/9/09 11:14 am

RNY on 03/26/09

Hang in there Connie!!! Sorry to hear that you are hurtin today!! You are an amazing person and I only know you thru all the posts you do but you are a caring wonderful person and you will get through this!!

This has been the best decision besides marriage and kids that I have ever made!!

Connie D.
on 5/9/09 11:17 am

RNY on 08/29/07

Linda....thanks for the words of encouragement...I really appreciate the kind words.
Tomorrow is another day.......

Hugs....connie d

Marsha F.
on 5/9/09 11:28 am

RNY on 12/13/07

Honey I am so sorry. You have been through so much and I wish you the best. You know I am a phone call away if you need anything. Many hugs to you sweetie......

Connie D.
on 5/9/09 11:42 am

RNY on 08/29/07

Marsha...as the evening goes on it gets harder and harder. I will be okay. One day at a time right!!
I always know you are there if I need you...thank you!!

Love you...hugs...connie d