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Barbara C.
on 11/15/11 10:39 pm - Raleigh, NC
Topic: Being open to change

Someone recently asked me what I thought they needed to do to make sure that they were successful  at losing the excess weight and just, if not more importantly, keeping it off. I think that one of the things is being open to change. What that means to each of us can be very different from one person to another. It is clear that we each have to find what works best for us where we are in our own journey. Not only do we need to realize that what works for one person may not work for another, but what worked for us at one juncture of our journey, may not be as effective in another. I guess I'm saying that we need to be open to change.

When I was losing weight I developed a whole set of skills and tools that helped me to take off the excess weight. Of course, my surgery did a great deal of the work for me. More than I think I acknowledged. That said, I too worked hard; I followed my program's dietary plan. It also meant that logged my intake and activity on a daily basis. This helped me develop an awareness of my intake and the value of that intake. All of these things helped me get the weight off, but they were not enough to help me keep it off.

As I got closer to maintenance, I thought that I understood what I needed to do to maintain my weight loss. While I had developed some skills that helped me be more aware of the value of my intake and activity, I didn't really fully appreciate weight of understanding the correlation of food and emotion. Learning to identify and more importantly for me, acknowledge dangerous behavior patterns have been key to my long term success in keeping the weight off. The tools and skills I use now to keep the weight off, are related to, but different than the skills I used to get the off.

Barbara
ObesityHelp Coach and Support Group Leader
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bcumbo_group/
High-264, Current-148, Goal-145

Barbara C.
on 11/15/11 9:59 pm - Raleigh, NC
Topic: RE: Painful Wednesday Roll Call

Paula,

I'm so sorry to hear of your ordeal and hope that you'll soon be feeling better.

Barbara
ObesityHelp Coach and Support Group Leader
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bcumbo_group/
High-264, Current-148, Goal-145

Barbara C.
on 11/15/11 9:58 pm - Raleigh, NC
Topic: RE: APPROVED!

Kim,

I'm delighted to hear that it's been approved. 

Wishing you every success, 

Barbara
ObesityHelp Coach and Support Group Leader
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bcumbo_group/
High-264, Current-148, Goal-145

shoutjoy
on 11/15/11 8:52 pm - Culpeper, VA
Topic: Painful Wednesday Roll Call
Hi all,

Woke up at 3am with terrible eye pain.  Went to Urgent Care but they refused to see me because I couldn't pay and wasn't sick enough.  So, I sit here and wonder where is our health care system going.

Don't feel like talking.  Chat room open tonight 6pm in Victorious Losers2.


Clueless about weight loss and weight loss surgery of any kind.

    

        
tbl2008
on 11/15/11 9:49 am - Greenville, NC
Topic: RE: APPROVED!
Good luck! Check back in with us post op.
285/204/199 starting/current/goal weight
tbl2008
on 11/15/11 9:47 am - Greenville, NC
Topic: RE: Tuesday Roll Call
Good luck with your new job! How's the free massage go?

Today was good. I think I'm coming down sick and went to the doctor for this chronic tummy issue I've had. Nothing serious, just annoying. I got out this morning and walked then went to the gym! I took it very easy at the gym but still got in a good workout. I was really excited to hear a new workout class Fridays with free child care. WOOHOO!! My gym buddy and I signed up.
285/204/199 starting/current/goal weight
kellyl1202
on 11/15/11 5:39 am
Topic: RE: APPROVED!
That's great-good luck to you!
Kim2011
on 11/15/11 2:39 am - NC
Topic: APPROVED!
They approved my surgery after two peer to peer reviews and an appeal! I am so excited! I'm scheduled for Nov. 21!!
shoutjoy
on 11/14/11 8:34 pm - Culpeper, VA
Topic: Tuesday Roll Call
Hi all,

Well if something else doesn't come up, I start with ACS Monday.  I know the money will be very appreciated.  I know I will learn a lot.  I just don't look forward to the stress.  Anyway, it's something to do while still looking.  I am thankful for this opportunity.

Today, I will check on another lead for a possible job.  Also it is Open House at our Chiro office so I will be there getting a free adjustment and massage.  I still have to study sometime.  Anyway, what are you up to?

Clueless about weight loss and weight loss surgery of any kind.

    

        
tbl2008
on 11/14/11 12:25 am - Greenville, NC
Topic: RE: OT job openings at my company
I already have a couple people applying for the Kinston opening. Thanks everyone thus far for contacting me!
285/204/199 starting/current/goal weight
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