What is the meanest thing someone has said or dont to you cause you are big?

The mean looks really bother me.  the look that someone is anoyed cause I am big.  That burns me up

I was once told that I didn't get a job that I was qualified for because of my size.

I have had a lot of things happen. At 13, about 175lbs, I was riding my bike and kids through a bucket of water at me as they drove by. At 17, I had a guy hit on me until I stood up.  My larger bottom was hidden as I was sitting behind a table.  I had a JLO booty, size 16 and he was obviously turned off.

At 22 I didn't get a job and was told flat out it was due to my size, and I was too naive to think to sue. At 24, I had strangers yell at me from a car window about being fat.  I weighed 270lbs.  What's worse is I was with my mom who weighed about 220/230 and she assumed the comments were for me. I have had my family presume I'm the cause when snacks in the house disappeared when in reality I didn't eat them--I didn't even like chips back then. I have had strangers say:   What a pretty face, it's a shame that....    You can't have that because you're fat....   You shouldn't eat that....

Need I go on?

If I start answering this, I will end up back in therapy. HAHA

Wow, I've had so many, but the thing that stands out the most is when I first gained the weight and the comments started happening to me, my boyfriend didn't believe me, in fact most days I wouldn't leave the house because I was so depressed about it.  He thought I was crazy and that I was making up how people started treating me different because I was overweight.  Well, One night I was outside and had found a puppy.  I was standing up and my boyfriend bent down to give it some water and a car drove by a some guy yelled "Fat *****" well right away, my boyfriend jumped up and I said, " you see I'm not crazy" and then I was so embarrassed that I started to cry, well he being the guy that he is, jumped in the car and went after them, but they were long gone.  When he got back He told me how sorry he was and to not listen to ignorant people like that and not to cry over it.  The ironic thing about that is that I explained to him that I wasn't crying for myself, but for ,because he was with such an ugly FAT girl, that I felt bad that he had underwent that scrutiny because of it, even though the heckle was geared toward me and not him.  Wow, after all this time it still kinda hurts thinking about it.   Cynthia

So many.......so many to list.  Especially when I'm in the mall and get the "stares". I learned to stare right back at them!  Or I could be grocery shopping and my cart has only 5 items in it and I catch people breaking their necks to see what I have in my cart and snikering, but at the same time their carts be full and running over with food.   I had to learn to snap back at people. Find something wrong with them and throw it right back in their face so they can feel the same pain I do when they say mean and hurtful things to me. So now when people call me "fat b*&^%" I'm like ok. Yeah I already know I'm fat and yes, sometimes I'm a ***** your point? Then I come back at them with Hell-like fury. The vocabulary is a beautiful thing once you learn how to use it. And doing it with no profanity gets at them even worse and make your point loud and clear. Its a coward that'll say things to you in a moving vehicle. Next time if possible, see if you can get the plate!! Next time someone says something to you within earshot and inches away from you, just tell 'em to go suck on a fat one. Then bend over and say here it is!!!!