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(deactivated member)
on 3/27/11 11:59 pm
Topic: RE: Looking for support person from south jersey
I didn't see this until just now but HI!  I am orginally from Riverside and live in Beverly now.  I am still testing for my surgery and am using Dr. Greenbaum.  Feel free to inbox me.  I love meeting the locals!  :)

Congrats on your surgery.  How are you feeling?


Tom C.
on 3/27/11 11:49 pm - Mount Arlington, NJ
Topic: REMINDER: Tuesday ? APRIL 5: Next Inconvenient get together dinner!!

 

REASON: A few of you have mentioned you’d like to get together for a dinner. We can sit around, meet each other, share our trials and tribulations and maybe a few laughs. While we want to help each other lose, maybe we can also help each other gain  … a new friend or two (or 5).

 

EVERYONE is invited to come. It doesn’t matter which operation you had, or even if you haven’t had a procedure yet, or maybe you’re just “thinking" about it !! COME and have a good time !!

 

If your apprehensive in attending, let me assure you – you will have a good time. There is No judging !! We are tolerant of each other’s decisions. And if it means anything, the Food Police are banned from our gathering.

 

Each time we do this, I will try to “move" the location - since no one location will be convenient for everyone.

 

This time we’re in the “Northern-Central" section of the Garden State !!

 

Place: The West 22 Diner

Location: Route 22 West, Springfield NJ

Time: 5:30 p.m.    it is understandable that not everyone can arrive at this time, so come WHENEVER. We probably won’t order until 6:30 p.m.

Menu / Website: http://www.thewest22diner.com/

 

In the meantime, for the “meeting newbies" here are some meeting request. I hope I don't offend anyone - it's not meant to be that. Just helpful. 

 

(1) If you want a separate check, please let the server know prior to taking the orders. It’s a hassle to ask the server to do this later on. And some places won’t do this if the crowd is too numerous.

 

(2) Usually when we do a group meeting, I like to divide check by the total number of folks at the table, instead of trying to figure out who had what. (If someone brings more than one person, they multiple the total owed by the number of people they have). Now I understand if you only order a coffee and someone else has a Filet Mignon with a 5 lbs Lobster – then we can address that more diplomatically.

 

(3) Please bring CASH (unless you want a separate check). And please make sure you have an assortment of bills. It’s really difficult to make change when everyone brings only 20’s.

 

(4) Bring a CAMERA!! Even if you are like me and camera shy, you’ll still want to take some photos of the folks who are there. I don’t have one or I would.

 

(5) Bring “proof" of your former self. Nothing says “how far you have come" like older photos. Even if you lost only 1 pound, bring your “before" pictures (and at the last meeting we all agree we hate that word only. Be proud of any amount of weight you lost).

 

(6) Please feel free to post and link this on any other forum you peruse (ex. Lapband, Rant and Rave, Realize band, RNY, VBG, VSB, etc). The more the merrier !!

Remember this is a GROUP effort. Please feel free to add your suggestion and/or voice your opinion on any suggestion. AND NO HARD FEELING – this is meant to be a pleasant experience.

 

(7) Print your Obesity Help “Membership" card so we hand them out. If you don’t know how to do this, send me an personal message, and I will send you the instructions.

 

And for those who haven’t had the operation yet – you too are more the welcome to come. In fact, you are encouraged to come!! This would be a ‘true-life’ learning experience to see “life after the operation". You will be able to hear what our ups-and-downs are, and you are encouraged to ask as many questions as you want. Other “up-comers" have come, and found it interesting and educational.

 

Significant others and/or kids are also welcomed (however you may want to leave them behind so you can really enjoy yourself  – it’s up to you)

 

Finally, since I cannot post on every board – please feel free to tell folks and/or copy and paste this on the boards you frequent.

 

 

 

Good Luck on your Journey !!

Tom

“Nothing I will ever eat will give me the feeling I get as when I lose weight”  The views expressed are based on my own experiences - and should NOT BE FOLLOWED IN LIEU OF DOCTOR’S ADVICE/INSTRUCTIONS. Only your Doctor knows your condition, and make sure you talk to them before making any changes to your diet
(deactivated member)
on 3/27/11 11:42 pm
Topic: I can't find anyone to do a Psych Eval!
I am using Dr. Greenbaum for my surgery.  I have all my testing done EXCEPT my Eval.  I can't find ANYONE who will do one.  The list he gave me to call won't return my phone calls and I've looked online and called tons of PH.D.'s and L.C.S.W. AND M.S.W.'s

I'm beyond frustrated.  This is the ONLY thing standing in my way.  Does anyone have anyone they could suggest?  I live in the Willingboro/Burlington area.
Maryellen R.
on 3/27/11 3:18 am - Sayville, NY
Topic: just read this and wanted to share
 
With more and more older people texting and sending IM's I felt that there was a need for "STC"...Senior Texting Codes. So see the comment below for a list of Texting Codes for seniors...I hope this helps

ATD - At the Doctor's 
BFF - Best Friends Funeral 
BTW - Bring the Wheelchair 
BYOT - Bring Your Own Teeth 
CBM - Covered by Medicare 
CUATSC - See You at the Senior Center 
DWI - Driving While Incontinent 
FWBB - Friend with Beta Blockers 
FWIW - Forgot Where I Was 
FYI - Found Your Insulin 
GGPBL - Gotta Go, Pacemaker Battery Low 
GHA - Got Heartburn Again 
HGBM - Had Good Bowel Movement 
HASMG -Has anyone seen my glasses? 
IMHO - Is My Hearing-Aid On? 
LMDO - Laughing My Dentures Out 
LOL - Living on Lipitor 
LWO - Lawrence Welk's On 
OHASM - Oh, having another senior moment 
OMMR - On My Massage Recliner 
OMSG - Oh My! Sorry, Gas 
ROFL...CGU - Rolling on the Floor Laughing...Can't get Up! 
TTYL -Talk to You Louder 
WAITT - Who Am I Talking To? 
WTFA - Wet the Furniture Again 
WTP - Where's the Prunes 
WWI -Where was I? 
WWNO - Walker Wheels Need Oil 
WWWJTA -What were we just talking about? 
GGLKI - Gotta Go, Laxative Kicking in!
Maryellen
To visit LIPO (Long Island Post Ops) bariatric support group website click here: www.liponation.org

"WLS is a journey, not a destination (don't get comfortable) ... it's a road that we must travel daily to succeed".  Faith Thomas

visit my blog at theessenceofmaryellen.com/

kevinvw
on 3/26/11 11:30 am - NJ
Topic: RE: CentraState WLS Peer Support Group Meeting Dissolved?
Thanks for this!!
Kevin
Lap RNY: 3/16/11
Dr. Robert Brolin - www.njbariatricspc.com
  "Today you are You, that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is Youer than You.? - Dr. Seuss

    
Sheri A.
on 3/24/11 12:27 pm
Topic: APRIL SUPPORT GROUP MEETING REMINDER
Attention!
First Saturday Support of Union County
April 2 - 10:30am - Noon
RWJ Fitness & Wellness Center
2120 Lamberts Mill Rd.
Scotch Plains
Conference Room A
Peer to Peer Support for All!
E-mail: [email protected]

Support is Important to Your Success
Pre-ops Welcome
RNY and Banders!
marl16
on 3/24/11 11:39 am - NJ
Topic: RE: CentraState WLS Peer Support Group Meeting Dissolved?

Hi Kevin!  I just attended a support group for the first time at CentraState last night.  From what I understand the group meets on the 4th Wednesday of every month  The next meeting is 4/27.  The phone number on the flier is 732-637-6382.  The meetings are held in Medical Building B Room C. 

Hope that helps.

    
Tom C.
on 3/24/11 6:46 am - Mount Arlington, NJ
Topic: RE: ten months out
WOW those 10 months flew fast!! And you're doing fantastic !! CONGRATS you LOSER!!! 

Keep rocking that band!!!
Good Luck on your Journey !!

Tom

“Nothing I will ever eat will give me the feeling I get as when I lose weight”  The views expressed are based on my own experiences - and should NOT BE FOLLOWED IN LIEU OF DOCTOR’S ADVICE/INSTRUCTIONS. Only your Doctor knows your condition, and make sure you talk to them before making any changes to your diet
ebonyfigueroa
on 3/24/11 6:36 am
Topic: ten months out
ten months out im now at 298 im loosing slow but im still loving the surgery im n the gym about 5 days aweek i sometimes do not track my intake of water\food\protein but im gettin there
yessss i go in with DR. BILOF .....   THANKS DOMINGA   WWW.GARDENSTATEBARIATRICS.COM  MAY GOD BE WITH ME THIS DAY AND ANY OTHER DAY IM SO HAPPY I CRY AS I WRITE THIS YESSSSSS PLS FEE FREE TO SHARE ANY AND EVERYTHING WITH ME
Butterfly618
on 3/24/11 4:57 am - NJ
Topic: Healthy Habit For Success from JFK for Life's wellness Advisors

Healthy Habits for Success

Healthy habits don’t just happen. They take know-how, time, and commitment. If you’re ready to commit, JFK for Life's Wellness Advisors and Registereed Dietitians can provide you with the knowledge and tools to develop healthy habits, eat in restaurants and social situations while following your dietary guidelines, and cope with cravings and emotional eating.

Steps to Developing Healthy Habits:

Many bariatric programs describe bariatric surgery as a tool patients can use to take control of their health. In addition to surgery, goal-setting skills are important tools that can help you achieve healthy habits. The following steps can help you set yourself up for success.

Step One: Do Your Homework

Lifelong habits start with information and knowing yourself. Spend some time researching online and speaking to someone whose diet and fitness habits you admire. Find out why they enjoy their habits and what keeps them going.

     Tips and Action Starters

  • Think about your current diet and physical activity habits, your time management skills, your strengths, your weaknesses, and your biggest fears and concerns.
  • Research fitness and cooking information, and browse through some magazines for inspiration.

Step Two: See Yourself Succeed

Once you’ve done your homework and grounded yourself with information, write down your objectives, a short description of them, and what you anticipate life will be like once you accomplish your objectives.

      Examples of Objectives

  • “After bariatric surgery, I want to lose 100 pounds, eat healthfully, and be physically active. I will take that vacation I have always wanted to go on.”
  • “I am going to have bariatric surgery. Before I have surgery, I am going to begin walking and eating more vegetables and whole grains. After surgery I will follow my bariatric program’s dietary and fitness guidelines. My goal is to lose 100 pounds and hopefully my type 2 diabetes, GERD, and asthma will resolve or improve.”

      Tips and Action Starters

  • Is your objective realistic? For example, if you currently weigh 350 pounds, a goal weight of 145 pounds may not be realistic. Our bariatric program will ensure that your weight loss objective is realistic.
  • Think about what you need to attain your objective: time, effort, knowledge, and resources.
  • Recognize your small successes, too. Sleeping better, going down one belt notch, being able to park further from an entrance—these are all successes!

Step Three: Come Up with an Action Plan

Once you’ve defined some objectives, it’s time to create an action plan. A plan plots your short- and long-term goals on a timeline. A plan should be specific so that you have realistic, but flexible, goals you can attain.

      Example of a Diet Plan

  • “For the first two weeks, I am going to record what I eat. I will use that to examine opportunities for eating more healthfully.”
  •  “After the first two weeks, I will begin eating healthfully by incorporating 25 grams of fiber per day in my diet. I will start by eating a bowl of oatmeal or a serving of yogurt sprinkled with high-fiber cereal for breakfast.”
  • “The third week, I will substitute five lean meats and low-fat versions of the foods I usually eat. Each week, I will introduce a new healthy choice.”
  • “I will measure portion sizes for the next six months.”

      Example of a Fitness Plan

  • “I am going to begin by walking for five minutes, five times each week.”
  • “After I am able to accomplish this goal for two weeks, I am going to add two minutes to each walk for the next two weeks.”
  •  “After four weeks, I am going to walk for 15 minutes, five times each week.”
  • “After two months, I am going to walk for 20 minutes, five times each week.”
  • “After three months, I am going to walk for 30 minutes, five times each week.”

      Tips and Action Starters

  • Be flexible about your plan. If it isn’t working, you will have to fine-tune it.
  • Plan upfront: Schedule your exercise time in advance, and plan your meals at the start of the week.
  • Be sure to include rewards throughout to recognize your accomplishments—big and small.

Step Four: Keep It Up

Developing a habit takes practice. For the first few months, you will be stress-testing your plan. Whenever you start a new habit, you are likely to encounter some challenges. When you do encounter a challenge, you will need to figure out a way to work through it.

       Example of Coping with a Diet Obstacle 
You and your friends meet up at restaurants for get-togethers, and you’re not sure what to order.

  • Check the restaurant’s website to get a jump start on ordering.
  • Restaurant appetizers are often closer to an appropriate portion size than the entrées.
  • If you order an entrée, ask your server for a to-go box when it comes out and put half of your entrée in it immediately.

        Example of Coping with a Fitness Obstacle
You schedule a 30-minute fitness activity for Tuesday afternoons, but find that you consistently miss it or do         not have enough time for the full 30 minutes.

  • Exercise an additional 15 minutes two other days of the week or 10 minutes three other days.
  • Split your Tuesday physical activity into two sessions: Exercise for 15 minutes in the morning and 15 minutes in the evening.

       Tips and Action Starters

  • Use a planner or calendar as a food and fitness journal to help you visualize your progress.
  • Help yourself with reminders: Keep your sneakers out, and chop up fruits and vegetables to snack on

"SUCCESS IS A LIFESTYLE, NOT A DIET"
Please visit my OH  Support group:

http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/allinthemind/welcome/

Where you will find helpful strategies to achieve you goals

Highest 325.7lbs Surgery 295lbs Current 244lbs 

 

    
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