pre op testing

Well I just came back from the hospital and did my pre admission testing and donated blood for myself incase I need it during surgery. I have to say the reality of the whole situation is really settling in. All I aimed for during the past 8 months was to get a date secured and to get the process started. Now that it is here it feels like the days are going so fast. I am so emotional these past few days and have been battling the "what if's" in my head. I don't discuss them with my family as they are worried enough but it is starting to consume me. I know this is what I need to do to get a fresh start and be there for my boys and be a more active and healthy role model for them. But this does not suppress the head battles. I am pretty sure this is normal but if anyone has any ideas on how I can deal with this I woulod appreciate because I think I may drive myself crazy. Thanks again

B K, I was just given my surgery date today for June 29th, so I know how you feel. Although I did not wait as long as you. I found out just over 6 weeks from my initial consult what my surgery date is, but I am very excited. The way I help to look at the positive side and not to worry is to make a list of all the positives that will come out of the surgery and weight loss and think about all of the great things you will be able to do and accomplish. Make a list of things you haven't done in years and that you would like to do again as soon as you lose enough weight. Write them all down and, when you start feeling the "what if's", look at your list and then you'll know that it is all worth it. You'll do fine, I know it. I also pray a lot, that helps tons!! Good luck! Laura

Good morning. I just found out yesterday that my insurance approved my surgery. My surgery is scheduled for 6/14 so I do know what you are feeling. These feelings are normal, however that doesn't relieve the pressure you are feeling. If you didn't have these feelings, then I would think that you aren't normal (lol). All I can suggest is to talk to others, if you don't want to discuss it with your family. There are a lot of people out there that can help - listen to you and your concerns. THey are normal. Take it from someone who's there. Good luck and God Bless