Hi - I was diagnosed with PCOS in 2002 as well, and I have been researching it and talking to doctors about it ever since (and I'm sure most of you have too). I haven't had my RNY surgery yet...not until next year. But, I do have some thoughts for you:

First, the reason why you used to know when you were having your cycle is because you were on birth control (Depo)...this pretty much guarantees a regular cycle (or at least a regular release of certain hormones)...even in women with PCOS, because of how it controls the out-of-control hormones in your body. In fact, my doctor told me that unless you are trying to get pregnant one treatment for PCOS is to put women on birth control (that has hormones) and metformin (along with diet and exercise), because it helps keep the hormones balanced. Are you on any type of birth control now?

Also, it was my understanding that losing weight doesn't always guarantee regular ovulation when you have PCOS. I've been told weight loss could improve my chances at a normal cycle since increased fatty tissue affects hormone levels (thus losing weight would help balance some of the hormones). One hormone change triggers another, which changes another. This makes a vicious circle of out-of-balance hormones. So, I guess with weight loss that just means a few less messed up hormones than if you were to stay overweight and struggle with PCOS.  While it's not usually the case...there are some women out there with PCOS that aren't currently overweight and they still have the same problems with ovulation.

I've also been told when you lose an excessive amount of weight (epsecially if you lose it quickly) you need to give your body time to adjust. You just had your surgery about 3 months ago and have already lost 51 pounds - which is great, but I don't think the hormones have had time to settle down yet, and I don't think you are done losing weight yet...just give yourself some time. It could take a good year.

One more thought...and then I'll be done. The thing with PCOS that many doctors are still unsure about is the "What came first? The Obesity and then the PCOS or the PCOS and then the Obesity?"

Many doctors feel that PCOS is a result of being obese, and if you lose weight your signs and symptoms of PCOS should improve or even disappear. I don't know if that is the case, because, there are women out ther with PCOS that aren't overweight at all.  I'm not a doctor, but it may explain why your doctor has certain expectations of weight loss and improved symptoms.

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I have been very lucky since my surgery. Prior I would have to take provera about every other month to have  period. Since my surgery Oct 2nd of last year I have had a period on a regular basics every 30 days.

Carla

for 7 month i had regular on time 4-6 day moderate periods, no cysts and a slow down in facial hair growth AND had typical weight loss. then suddenly... totally out of whack periods, 3 cysts in 5 months, increased facial hair growth and no loss in 3 months. life is starting to suck again.