50lbs gone and no one notices
Congrats for the 50 lb WL!!!
I am just starting the process myself to have WLS, but have lost a significant amount of weight many times before and yes have had that reaction. What we have to keep in mind is that WE are hyperaware of our weight, but for those around us they are used to the way we look and that more than likely the first thought in their head when they see us does NOT have anything to do with our weight. They dont pay attention until it is super obvious we have lost weight. Take if for what it is....that they like you no matter what you look like. The daily people in our lives are far less aware of our fat than we are
Sarah
I am just starting the process myself to have WLS, but have lost a significant amount of weight many times before and yes have had that reaction. What we have to keep in mind is that WE are hyperaware of our weight, but for those around us they are used to the way we look and that more than likely the first thought in their head when they see us does NOT have anything to do with our weight. They dont pay attention until it is super obvious we have lost weight. Take if for what it is....that they like you no matter what you look like. The daily people in our lives are far less aware of our fat than we are

Sarah