Things I don't miss

 LJ1972 I really appreciate your post here. I am pre op but all of the items on your list are things I have experienced and ironically the feelings I had after the little boy in the grocery store said "hi you're fat" were one of the things that helped jump start my research into RNY. There was also the concert last year that I was so lucky to have amazing tickets to, but I couldnt even be excited about it because all I could think about was what the seats in the arena would be like and if I would fit. Thanks again for this post.

you're very welcome! Best wishes!