pissed

 OK .. so i felt i had the right to tell who i wanted to and who i didn't want to tell about the surgery .. but today my friend came over and was being the worlds biggest snoop and even went thru my purse and found my papers from the hospital ..so needless to say the whole town i live in will know the whole story before i even awake up tomorrow .. makes me so mad i wasn't ready to tell certain people and now i cant lie to them if they come up to me and ask .. ohhhhhh I'm so mad ..just when i thought everything was going great she had to show up 

i know your upset right now. But may i ask why you didn't want people to know? i choose to tell everyone and anyone i was so proud of my choice. and i have met my fair share of "your taking the easy way out" but after i explained to them Why  i needed the surgery and what it actually does they changed there opinions and i think it would be nice to hear someone elses point of view :)  My date is june 4th and i cant wait!

 She isn't your friend if she went thru your purse and is going to spread your personal business thru your town. Everything can still be great eventhough it may not go as you planned. 

 certain people dont need to kno i had surgery .. if you dont even say hi to me but bam im losing weight and you want to kno all my business .. i dont think i should tell people they didnt care while i was fat so why ya care now .. if i wanted them to know my story i would of told them instead of people running around my town acting like they kno me .. its just my place and not hers

Whether or not you choose to tell people is not the issue here. The issue is that someone you thought was a friend violoated your privacy, personal space, etc and I would be ditching that ***** in a hurry...just sayin'.

 agree

Coundn't agree with you more Chelsea!

 I really understand how you feel, I have not told really anyone that I have had the surgery yet, not saying that I wont tell people but just not yet. My own parents dont even know yet, and I will be seeing them for the first time in about 5 years in about 3 weeks. The last time I saw them I was about 70 lbs lighter than right now. I am dreading telling them. But I will in my own time. I believe that this should always be done on our time, people should respect your right to share this information, and respect your privacy. Apparently she was not raised right to feel free to go through your things. WOW!

 Wow, talk about a violation of your privacy...that isnt a friend. Who the heck snopes through another womans purse?

Know this: It's YOUR choice who you tell or whether or not to tell, so anyone who deflects from what was done today by asking why you don't want it known, doesn't get the point AT ALL. That is no "friend" IMO. I would be mad as hell too regardless of whether or not she tells. I cannot imagine the nerve of someone going in your purse like that.