A Slightly personal question
i am extremely self-conscious of my skin, but i wasn't in a relationship prior to surgery, and have dated/slept with 2 guys since surgery. the first one was pretty early out so i didn't have a huge skin issue, but the second i was extremely insecure about it with. he never said anything about it, but it still bothered me
The excess skin issue was a huge one for me, but sex was still better. Just had to get used to the skin flapping . I did have a lower body lift so I no longer have to worry about that.
But my boyfriend has known me over 20 years and has loved me through thick and thin, literally. He did not even want me to get plastic surgery, but I needed to for my mental health.
Laura in Texas
53 years old; 5'7" tall; HW: 339 (BMI=53); GW: 140 CW: 170 (BMI=27)
RNY: 09-17-08 Dr. Garth Davis
brachioplasty: 12-18-09 Dr. Wainwright; lbl/bl: 06-28-11 Dr. LoMonaco
"May your choices reflect your hopes and not your fears."