Relationship relations question

netnay
on 3/20/13 11:21 am
RNY on 03/27/13

My husband is great. He has supported me through everything. I know it doesn't matter to him. I think it's just my own insecurities. Thanks everyone for y'all's input.

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65rosesmom
on 3/20/13 12:51 pm

Before surgery, I had gotten to the point of  cringing whenever my husband touched any part of me that was fat . . . so like most of me.   Now I don't feel that way, and the loose skin doesn't bother me at all.  I've never felt more attractive to him or to me.

Heather   Mom to 3  
Surgery August 9, 2012
HW = 225, SW= 205, CW 135 

    

Joyceebaby
on 3/20/13 10:16 pm
RNY on 11/29/12

I'm not crazy about how I look naked...both from the MANY scars from several abdominal surgeries, to the flabby skin, to the saggy boobs.  SO, I'm heading out this weekend to get some nice lingerie (sp?).  They make such cute stuff with underwires.  I have a nice shape, but feel self conscious completely naked.  SO, this is my solution.

My husband is more than happy with just naked...he's said several times "don't waste money on that stuff...I prefer naked!"  LOL! But, I figure if it makes me FEEL more sexy, he will reap the benefits of that and come around to my way of thinking!  

      

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