I am so ill

I hate it for my husband right now. I had my surgery on wednesday. I am so ill that I have snapped his head off several times today. I know he is trying t help me but it is aggravating me. On top of that here I am drinking juice, protein shakes, broth, and yea (all in small amounts) while they are eating KFC And Pizza inn. Jus****ching them makes me want to cry. I know this is just temporary. And its not even about the places that they are eating at. I just can't wait to get past this part. I am able to drink diet peach tea snapple and I am going to try the new Lipton diet green tea watermelon flavor. It also has 0 sugars in it. That's all my venting for today. I just had to get it out somewhere that i won't hurt anyone's feelings.

I liked the watermelon tea.  I hope you feel better soon.  I never envied what my family ate....I was too sick to care.  I was just jealous that I couldn't do something as simple as drink my water.

My husband got his share of abuse and he survived.  Yours will, too.  Take it easy on yourself.  

I'm sorry to hear you're having a hard time. Maybe it's just me, but I think it's a little bit thoughtless for him to bring that type of food in the house right now. It might be a good idea to have a talk with him, so he understands what you need from him right now. Hang in there.

Kat

My husband could tell something was wrong with me. I had told him I was fine that he could eat in front of me when I really wasn't. So we had a talk this afternoon . When they cook or bring something to eat in the house I'm going in my room until they are finished.

I know how you feel.  I am 4 months out and can eat anything now but shortly after surgery, i was moody and regretting the surgery.  You will hear it a million times, but it gets soooo much easier in time.  

Hang in  there!!!!! I drank Diet Cranberry juice (Oceanspray) and has zero sugar. They also have different diet flavors. I water it down and still hits the spots. I was able to have sugar free popsicles (as many as you would like too :) and you can have no sugar added fudgsicles........ YOU GOT THIS! 

You are going through so much right now and it sounds very hard.  After my surgery, I felt like I went through some kind of grieving period---walking into a grocery store made me teary, seeing food commercials on TV made me anxious...life as I knew it seemed foreign---I felt so alone in the world.  But, then a wonderful thing happened.  I started feeling better and I started losing weight...looking and feeling better trumped everything---including F - O -O - D.   Wishing you the same recovery.

Remember along with the other changes due to surgery our hormones have been disrupted. Sort of like when pregnant. This can erupt all kinds of emotions---go easy on yourself and let your husband know about the hormonal changes.

It will get better. You might try focusing on summer... Wearing a pair shorts and tank top... that held me... My SD was 12/13/13...and I don't miss food, am not hungry.... 

Dont be so hard on yourself ...:) 

I am sorry you are not feeling well.  I sort of feel guilty for not having and WLS issues so far.  I am not a fan of sweet drinks, so water, tea, coffee, etc. are fine for me.  I could care less what everyone else is eating.  Just got done cooking a huge pan of candied sweet potatoes for tomorrow.  The are ready to pop in the oven tomorrow morning to melt everything and everything is together for a big pan of dressing to go in with the sweet potatoes in the morning as we are going to my daughter's house for dinner.  I had a couple bites of plain sweet potato while cutting them up.  She is making a ham.  They always are so tender and I hope the little I have will not bother me. 

Things do get better!