I am in utter shock! I got hit on at the grocery store

mzlaura
on 5/5/13 11:54 am - Litchfield, NH
RNY on 03/05/13

Today i was casually shopping.. I had to go out to my car for something and go back in the store. On my way back in 2 guys relatively young maybe late 20's? Anyway they asked me how i was doing, i said i am good how are you doing? He said much better now that i am walking next to you.. he said sorry you probably would to smack me now huh? I was in utter shock i didn't know whetther to be flattered or offended. My old self at 401 pounds would have thought this was just a cruel joke like hey lets act like we like the huge girl so they can laugh at me. This is the 1st time i have actually gotten hit on.. and it was random. It's just crazy and i am still a big girl 268ish pounds but do guys really see me that much differently already as in being attractive? Who else has experienced this and how did you deal with the new attention? I overall feel like people treat me better more like a human being rather than an animal since i lost so much weight already 132 lbs i think.

HW: 401  SW: 297  CW: 200.8
RNY gastric bypass surgery on March 5th, 2013

  

Ashley Goforth
on 5/5/13 1:35 pm - CA

That is so fun and exciting! I am married so obviously I have been hit on but not in many years!! Since my weight loss it is totally crazy how different I get treated. My hubby jokes when I get ready and he thinks I look hot he always says baby your so gonna get hit on today! Lol he loves  that others recognize my beauty and it makes me feel good others do too.  In fact his friend told him he has a trophy wife haha enjoy the attention it's a wonderful feeling ;)

                 
Mo Diggity
on 5/5/13 4:31 pm - poughkeepsie, NY
RNY on 07/03/13

Maybe your self confidence is improving ?? People are usually attracted to confident people as they exude it ;)

Maureen Tired of Living my Life in the Dark

Dee.spunk
on 5/6/13 12:34 am - Sacramento, CA
Yeah, that's happened to me a few times. I just smile and say, that's sweet, and move on. One time my husband was behind me when it happened and he walked up and put his arm around me and said, yeah she's hot, and she's mine and wiled me away! Lol! Girl, just learn to love it!

Height:5'1.5 RNY:11/30/11 HW:307 SW:234 CW:136 GW:140 (LOST 73 Lbs. PRE-OP)

 


 

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