Being a good boy today

SteveWebb
on 12/25/13 3:44 am - NC

I have the turkey in the oven and a can of green beans waiting.  That is the entirety of my meal today.  I've had one protein shake and a handful of roasted pecans to snack on.  I being very rigid on my diet until I see the surgeon   on Jan. 14.  My A1C was 8.7 and I need to get it below 8 before surgery.  Hope I can get him to retest when I see him and it is below 8 so I can schedule surgery.  My wife is being a pain in the butt, instead of supporting what I'm doing now she's beating me over the head for what I ate at my parents last weekend.  I can see it going to be a long road for me but I am determined to do this for myself!  I won't let her discourage me.  Hope everyone has had a Merry Christmas.

  Jeremiah 29:11 " For I know the thoughts that I think towards you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end". 

        
poet_kelly
on 12/25/13 3:46 am - OH

You can't change what you did or didn't eat last weekend.  what you can do is control what you eat today.  Stay focused.  I hope you get good news on the 14th.

View more of my photos at ObesityHelp.com          Kelly

Please note: I AM NOT A DOCTOR.  If you want medical advice, talk to your doctor.  Whatever I post, there is probably some surgeon or other health care provider somewhere that disagrees with me.  If you want to know what your surgeon thinks, then ask him or her.    Check out my blog.

 

(deactivated member)
on 12/25/13 3:50 am

Merry Christmas.I would talk to your wife while you start this journey.It will help if she understand how you are feeling. If I looked back at what I did the weekend before I had to do my liquid diet it was bad but it's over and a new day begins.

SteveWebb
on 12/25/13 3:54 am - NC

We're not saying a lot at the moment.  She has to go see the Surgeon with me.  If necessary I will make her go see the behavioral therapist with me after surgery and my NUT.   Then we can get on the same page hopefully.  Thanks for your support.

  Jeremiah 29:11 " For I know the thoughts that I think towards you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end". 

        
(deactivated member)
on 12/25/13 4:22 am

My husband never wanted me to have the surgery because he thought something would happen to me.But now he is glad I did.I feel so much better.If you show her pictures of people that have lost and she can see it can work.

SteveWebb
on 12/25/13 3:52 am - NC

Thanks Kelly, I haven't gone totally wild like some do.  She can be super critical at times.  I am focused now and plan to stay that way.  I am off of nsaids and caffeine now and am going through carb withdrawals as I type.  I figure it is better to come off everything before my two week liquid diet than to wait and make things harder then.

  Jeremiah 29:11 " For I know the thoughts that I think towards you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end". 

        
scoobyluvr1
on 12/25/13 9:47 am, edited 12/25/13 9:47 am
RNY on 10/21/13

Good for you Steve!  Just focus on today and the future will take care of itself.  You can't change the past.  It sounds like you've got yourself in the right frame of mind  for this.   I hope all goes well and you can schedule your surgery as planned.  Hopefully, your wife will be able to see how hard your working for this and get on board and be more supportive.   :)

    

~Ronda~  

Can you hear me now? Only on R&R 3.0 PM me for an invite!

anewme71
on 12/25/13 11:25 pm - TX
RNY on 10/11/13

It sounds like you are on the right track to do what you need to do to make this happen. Stick with it!

:)

 

     

Highest Weight 304, Feb 2013. Met with nutritionist in March 2013 and started diet. Surgery Weight 272 on 10/11/13.  Current weight 231.

            
Most Active
Recent Topics
×