TERRIBLE 1st date post-surgery...any advice?

H.A.L.A B.
on 2/21/14 8:43 am

Please forgive her.. She lives in her own world.. Sucking on lemons or drinking water with lemon juice most of the day,... 

 

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whiskeyten
on 2/21/14 8:55 am
RNY on 03/03/14

What a gracious reply, to a painful post... Love ya Em

 

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Candy V.
on 2/22/14 10:28 pm - MI
RNY on 09/12/12

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(deactivated member)
on 2/23/14 9:44 am

I just want to tell you on a daily basis you bring sunshine to this forum.You are always so positive.I am only a little over four months out and I love your daily whats on the menu.Don't change to make someone else happy.

goddessgrrl
on 2/23/14 12:09 pm - VA

I second that emotion! =]

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illinois Gama D.
on 2/21/14 6:27 am
On February 21, 2014 at 1:35 PM Pacific Time, Sin Kim wrote:
On February 21, 2014 at 1:24 PM Pacific Time, Grim_Traveller wrote:
On February 21, 2014 at 12:33 PM Pacific Time, MyLady Heidi wrote:

You went out with a guy on a first date and insulted him before you even sat down with your empty calorie comment, what was he supposed to say, yeah I prefer my calories empty like my girlfriends bubble brains.  Seriously.  Think about what you said to him.

And you had wls, you are not a leper, he can see you, see what you weigh, see what you eat, I would assume you were some sort of fraud if you showed up at a date and picked at food and insulted the fact I had ordered a beer.  You need to really work on your dating skills.  At the point you are now, unwilling to be honest about the fact you have altered anatomy, you will probably never have a positive first date.  It just all reeks of dishonesty.  And be careful with all that walking, you could become dehydrated and pass out and the guy might take you to the hospital where you might actually have to admit the truth about the fact you had wls.  And passing out from dehydration, especially early out is not that hard.

Seriously???? 

Mean AND rude!

uncalled for!! why would you even respond this way?

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H.A.L.A B.
on 2/21/14 8:47 am

I wonder what was in the lemon water she had today..., 

WTF ????

Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG

"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"

"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."

Amy, Daredevil
Extraordinaire

on 2/21/14 5:56 am - Los Angeles, CA
DS on 08/06/13
On February 21, 2014 at 12:33 PM Pacific Time, MyLady Heidi wrote:

You went out with a guy on a first date and insulted him before you even sat down with your empty calorie comment, what was he supposed to say, yeah I prefer my calories empty like my girlfriends bubble brains.  Seriously.  Think about what you said to him.

And you had wls, you are not a leper, he can see you, see what you weigh, see what you eat, I would assume you were some sort of fraud if you showed up at a date and picked at food and insulted the fact I had ordered a beer.  You need to really work on your dating skills.  At the point you are now, unwilling to be honest about the fact you have altered anatomy, you will probably never have a positive first date.  It just all reeks of dishonesty.  And be careful with all that walking, you could become dehydrated and pass out and the guy might take you to the hospital where you might actually have to admit the truth about the fact you had wls.  And passing out from dehydration, especially early out is not that hard.

 WTH??

"You need to really work on your dating skills." "You will probably never have a positive first date." "...passing out from dehydration...is not that hard."

And not telling someone about your surgery ON A FIRST DATE "reeks of dishonesty". Really?!? Really?

This is downright hilarious!

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Dcgirl
on 2/21/14 6:04 am - DC
RNY on 12/16/13

Amy, I thought I was being sensitive :)  Thank you.  I will find my way in a post-WLS dating world...I just feel like Bambi with unsure footing :)

saterry
on 2/21/14 6:58 am - IN
Revision on 10/03/13

wow---just wow !

I didn't even see the cliff you jumped off......or maybe you were pushed by someone else you insulted !!!

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