TERRIBLE 1st date post-surgery...any advice?

Add some more sarcasm here Heidi, you're perfect MO lately. Must be nice to be so beautiful and perfect in everything you do. 

Being that you have stated some really ****** up stuff on here hopefully the OP knows your advice and suggestions aren't worth .02. 

I think you are out of your mind..... 

This is offensive and completely out of line.  I think you might be projecting your own issues onto someone whose only intent was to relate an experience.

Wow! Who rained on your parade????

Wow, why don't you just break out the nuclear warhead and nuke her out of existence?! You are generally mean, but you went straight to evil with this response.

I don't think the OP's post reeks of dishonesty. Your reply, however, is filled with the stench of you acting like a hag.

You went out with a guy on a first date and insulted him before you even sat down with your empty calorie comment, what was he supposed to say, yeah I prefer my calories empty like my girlfriends bubble brains.  Seriously.  Think about what you said to him.

And you had wls, you are not a leper, he can see you, see what you weigh, see what you eat, I would assume you were some sort of fraud if you showed up at a date and picked at food and insulted the fact I had ordered a beer.  You need to really work on your dating skills.  At the point you are now, unwilling to be honest about the fact you have altered anatomy, you will probably never have a positive first date.  It just all reeks of dishonesty.  And be careful with all that walking, you could become dehydrated and pass out and the guy might take you to the hospital where you might actually have to admit the truth about the fact you had wls.  And passing out from dehydration, especially early out is not that hard.

>Think about what you said to him.

Think about what YOU said to OP. You pretty much slammed her when she was honestly seeking opinions. Funny how considering your words applies to everybody, huh?

>You need to really work on your dating skills.

You really need to work on your kindness, empathy, and reading comprehension before dispensing "advice."

>...you will probably never have a positive first date

You will probably never have a positive reaction to your comments if you talk down to and make ridiculous assumptions about other posters.

> And be careful with all that walking, you could become dehydrated and pass out...

Be careful with your replies and opinions, someone might assume you know what you're talking about and make the poor decision to trust your unhelpful, judgmental comments.

See? Two can play this game!! 

Spark, thanks for pointing out the hypocrisy.   It's disgusting. 

   Wise words, Sparklekitty xxx

WTF?? Who pissed in your cheerios this morning??? This response is incredibly odd and rude!

One thing you gotta say about H, she's consistent. You know that bumper sticker that says MEAN PEOPLE SUCK? Well, yeah. smh