I dont understand what is goin on here????????/

Wow... Im fairly new here and pre-op and don't like what I see up above. What happened? In fact, just the other day, I was telling some folks at the nutrition class that we go to, to come here for support. I've read old posts and know that this is a good place for information. There are a couple of good other sites, too. So, I guess I don't see what the deal is. I'd understand better if I knew what was said, I guess. Unfortunately, just like AOL or anywhere else, if the TOS rules are violated in some way, they don't ask you to leave, the just delete you...so... I guess I'm curious as to what went on. It could be a deciding factor as to whether I continue to come here or not and also as to whether I spread the word or not...lol. Seems like a tight group here and I was really looking forward to the March M&G for the Hampton Roads folks...