i am leaving

Hi Jodi Thank you so much for your support and I hope we get to know each other. i hope everything works out for you so you can get your surgery. Please email me or send me a message by clicking contact below and keep in touch and let me know if there is anything i can do to help hugs JudyB

Judy, please do not let that one person ruin it for you. You have been so supportive to everyone here and would be missed really bad. Like some of the others I do not post much anymore but I do try to keep up with some of you. There will come a time when this person will need help and then will know what it is like to not be able to afford insurance or food and need to ask for help and how is she going to feel when she gets turned away and no one wants to help her. It is not a good feeling I know I have been there and althrough I have insruance I cannot get the surgery and am having to do the best I can. Again PLEASE do not leave the VA board, we need you and your wisdom.

Hi Kats Mom Nope i am not leaving and you are right..a person never knows if they will have to walk similar shoes one day. Hugs JudyB

Judy...don't go. Usually, when someone feels like it's ok to put someone down like that, it's because they are not a happy person and lead their own little miserable life and want others to do the same. Keep that it mind and don't let that ignorant person steal your joy or allow them the power to hurt you. Your experiences and support are wanted and needed on this board. (((Judy))) xo Joy

Hi Joy You are right ...and i will not allow someone to have that much power over me again. Thank you for your support and encouragement hon. Hugs JudyB

Judy, You are such an asset to this board! I would truly miss you if you left. Please don't let the unkind actions of one person make you leave us. I totally understand that you are hurt and am not trying to minimize that in any way, but I would hate to see you cut yourself off from the rest of us. Hugs, Robin

Hi Robin I really enjoy the people on this Board. I have learned so much over the past two years I have been here and I will be here til I am run off. I don't think you are minimizing my feelings in any way. I will be here! Hugs JudyB

Excuse me???? I do NOT think so!!!! I don't give a rat's behind what anyone thinks. Unfortunately, someone felt that it was their right to put you down for whatever situation you are in. I don't think so! We all have our own opinions, but to express that opinion is just to be ugly. And I'm sorry that it was directed to you. No excuse for it! You are NOT leaving this board, even if it means I have to job up there and make sure that you don't leave (hey....there's my workout! ) Don't let them be ugly and win. STAY! Jill

Hi Jill Yep everyone has a right to their own opinion..but not at the expense of someone else. I won't leave this board, i dont want you to "job" up here..LOL..but "jogging" up here would be great!! yes I am picking on ya..but in a good way! A workout YES! But then I would get to see ya! Thanks for your support!! hugs JudyB

Judy I am relatively new here... I haven't had wls yet... so I haven't even gotten to know you so I am glad you decided to stay and not let one person dictate what you do or don't do. I have an appt. for my very last hurdle next thursday may 24th. the endoscopy. I hope you stay around to give us newbies your support. You sound like a source I will be needing.