Husband's ultimatum on my weight

I am in for that. He needs a rude awakening! Good luck BK!

Im not going to preach to you because that's not what you asked for. Im only going to ask you ( from a women that has been divorced ) do you want to go the rest of your life with a man that would leave you for cosmetic reasons? Could you live with that glooming above your head? There's so many other ways that cosmeticlly something could happen to you other than being over weight. Think about it...for better or worse, in sickness and in health. You were a good wife and didnt think of leaving him when he weighed 450lbs but what would happen if god forbid you were in a car accident and became disfigured or paralyzed...if he would  leave you over 30lbs do you think he would still be around for that? I think that you know that you deserve better than that no matter what your weight is...dont let it get the a point where you NEED him and he isnt there for you... Good luck in your endeavors...I will say a prayer for you. Brandi~