Now that YOU are THIN/NER would YOU DATE A MO person

(deactivated member)
on 5/20/11 5:37 am - CA
I'm definitely not chubby chaser but I've always been attracted to women of all shapes and sizes. That said, I would be concerned about dating an MO person because their eating habits or lifestyle may not be a good influence on my new eating habits and lifestyle.  I'm separating from my wife right now and I would be lying if that wasn't a small part of the reason.
KathyA999
on 5/20/11 6:47 am
Waffleking, so sorry to hear that!  But that being said, would you consider a Size 12 older woman? 

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(deactivated member)
on 5/20/11 7:54 am - CA
Ha ha ha, I'm very flattered! I'm not sure if I'm ready to throw myself into the ring yet! I might get eaten alive!
Jenn H.
on 5/21/11 10:52 am - Portland, OR
 Sorry to hear about the separation! 

I'm fortunate in that my husband adjusted his eating habits to align with mine somewhat (just in a bit larger quantities but to overboard). And I don't have to leave him to date other people. He is awesome about everything, I wish your wife could be like that too :(

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DragonGirl
on 5/20/11 5:38 am - MN
Bottom line, depending on the situation and if there is chemistry, I'd seriously consider it. But I'd have to like him...regardless of size. I know many handsome and FINE men who are complete ******** so size, shape, height...doesn't matter as much as what's on the inside. And that's not martyrdom, that's my reality!

Amen Sunny...I agree...the biggest turn on to me is someones mind. If it's a little warped better yet. My Husband is certifiable!

When I did date I dated different shapes, height and different races.

I have to admit I wouldn't date any of these guys....it's the spandex in Rainbow Bright colors...I'm pretty sure I'm allergic....
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Sunkissedsgrho
on 5/20/11 5:57 am - LA
Amen!!  There are toooooooooo many men out there to be discriminating! LOL People really miss out when they are reluctant to at least TRY something new! Who knows..... I don't wanna miss out on my happily ever after!

PS... naw, those guys... JUST can't get past the spandex! THAT is a deal breaker for me! LOL  No allergies... I JUST DON'T WANNA!
Jasonm11
on 5/20/11 5:42 am
I know me...I was shallow when it came to women I would date....my wife is tiny...still can't figure out what she saw in me...

of course now that I'm starting to get skinny I know I'm sexy just playing

But yea, I'm shallow, always have been. Always dated the skinny sorority girls in college and the same type before that. Althoug in college I was substantially smaller(250 but even at my highest I carried my weight very well). As big as I had gotten for a while there, I would have been a lonely guy back in college.

As for friends, I'll be friends with anyone. Looks don't matter to me at all for friends.

Since I am married, and now a Christian, I no longer have the random hook ups I had in college but the amount of my shallowness would reduce proportionate to how much I had drank....

I had a stupid, fuzzily remembered college experience...lesson learned...

And that is my completely honest and probably offense answer....sorry if it did offend you
ravenssummer
on 5/20/11 5:48 am - West Warwick, RI
I'm married to one. I would do it again I love him no matter what size or health issues. Not to make anyone feel bad but would you not date someone that had cancer that was in remission and doing great just because they have that health issue. The thing is you never know what your going to miss. That one man or woman could be your soul mate and you pass them up for something like that. Everyone has there own opinion but this is my own.
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Sunkissedsgrho
on 5/20/11 5:53 am - LA
Well said!  
Mary R.
on 5/20/11 5:56 am - OH
love your response!
"Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time" 
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