Its not easy being sleeved...

faylavi
on 5/31/11 3:28 am - Laurel, MD
when you are stalled.  Hearing the "sleeve is a tool" is like someone dragging their nails on a chalk board.

Me and my fat go waaay back.  Its my longest successful (but negative) relationship.  We have our ups and downs but through it all we STICK together.  I say that to say that my fat is NOT leaving me (fast enough).

I know its a process and I attempt to work the plan everyday. Most days lately I am the one being worked.  I am no longer answering the "how much weight have you loss?".  I LIE and say I dont know.  I am not interested in sharing my slowed reduction.  At my 3 month checkup, my surgeon said I should have loss more weight.  I agreed with him.  I told him I am the one who has to drag this azz around, believe me I want it gone yesterday.

All that being said I cant seem to kick it in high gear. I am trying to get a work out buddy or 2.  I am still considering wiring my mouth shut or HCG diet. 

Dont judge me I am desperate and its tough getting on a wagon that is out of reach.

Fay
thebadest
on 5/31/11 3:34 am - Houston, TX
Lol @ finger wagging smiley. It can be frustrating, but you'll get through it.

***Getting to Goal Challenge: -13.9/22.7 July 29th surgiversary**
Trina//SW:270/CW:172.7/GW:150












 

faylavi
on 5/31/11 3:56 am - Laurel, MD
I have to laugh at myself.  I am usually mentally togh, but weightloss is a different animal.  Thanks
pinkypromise93
on 5/31/11 3:35 am
I'm right wid ya!!!! not as far out post-op but I have reached the dreaded stall and it is frustrating...the mind is awful....always telling me you went through all that and now look you still aint losing weight, you went through all that, can't eat nothing and still aint losing....its a hellish battle!!! I get so frustrated that I don't even want nobody to talk to me at times!!! Good luck girly and I hope it picks up for ya real soon!!! keeping you in my thoughts!!!!
                    
faylavi
on 5/31/11 3:57 am - Laurel, MD
Good to know I am not alone.  It will pick up for you too.  Thanks!!
Lalamonkey
on 5/31/11 3:37 am - GA
Fay,

No judgement here Fay - Just love and support.  It seems that this ***** (stall) is fiesty and that you are going to have to win the waiting game.  I know you can out last her! 

I think you need some distraction... If I recall you've been putting off getting new clothes. How about a little clothes shopping that you have been putting off.  NOTHING like jeans in a smaller size to make you feel better and to show the ***** who is boss.

Hang in there Gfriend - This part sucks, but it does pass.

Hugs,

Laura
faylavi
on 5/31/11 4:00 am - Laurel, MD
Laura

I bought some bras over the weekend, does that count?  My attempts at clothes shopping, usually ends at Best Buy or some other gadget store.

I need to find my mojo.  I am not going back to my surgeon anytime soon!

Thanks!!
Lalamonkey
on 5/31/11 5:23 am - GA
Not unless you are wearing those bras so they can be seen.  Over your clothes???
faylavi
on 5/31/11 5:41 am - Laurel, MD
Not at all.  Not that confident right now.
Backinstride
on 5/31/11 3:39 am
Don't feel bad I am 7 weeks out today and less then 20 pounds and I do exercise and doing all the right things. Hey I just decided to go with the flow there is nothing more I can do not to find discouranging but it wil come off when it feel like it. LOL i have to laught to keep my spirits up. I am not hear to judge you just to say hang in there. I think I ordered thos Victoria Secret Magazines a bit to soon...........
     
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