she really had the nerve!

Sorry you had to go through that, I have a sister like that.  So I know somewhat how you feel.  You were right by walking away, but learn from this and never be your brothers keeper.  He makes his decisions, so he should have to suffer the consequences.  Obviously he keeps going back to her so he is getting something out of the relationship he wants.
Just remember this surgery can help fix you, and they also have a surgery to fix her it's called  a labotomy.  You can either share that with her next time, or just think of it and give her the best smile you can muster and giving little chuckle wouldn't hurt 

haha i like ur reply. wow seems like there's more crazy ppl in this world than we realize! ive learned i can no longer stick up for him. hes grown. he can make his bed and lay in it. im not gonna get hurt by trying to get in the middle. i have NO idea what hes getting out of that relationship. im pretty sure she dont **** gold...my parents are giving him an ultimatum when they get back from vacation: if he chooses to be with her still, or ever goes back to her, he has to move out of their house. cause they want her to have nothing to do w/ the rest of our family. she has my 11 year old sister scared to death. i sure hope this surgery "fixes" me. or at least makes me know that the next time she calls me a fatass, its not true!

I realize that a lot of people think that 'crazy' is entertaining (ala reality tv), but I'm not one of them. Report her ass! There should be an incident report reflecting her threat. Your brother may be whipped, but she threatened you via that text- not him. Don't even tell him about it.  She needs to find out from the police.

 Skinny children hurt and kill people all the time.  She cut your brother's breaks - she didn't need to be a big person to do that.  People that are small get something to make them feel big - like a gun.  Or another person.   Please report this.  

I have worked in the mental health field for years.  It is very important to try not to let what crazy people say hurt your feelings.  If you are stable, they always try to emotionally drag you off center-it's the only weapon they have against the sane because they cannot negotiate rational argument.  I always use Socratic method "Why the cheap shot? What does my appearance have to do with this?" or some other such thing.  They don't actually know why they do it most of the time, so constant, relentless questioning in a flat "I'm not impressed or scared " voice confuses them.
Sorry she made you feel unworthy, though.  It was really great what you tried to do for your family.  I say report this to someone.  If your car does end up keyed, it won't look like a coincidence if you have told the authorities.







edited for spelling.