SHOULD I JOIN WEIGH****CHERS??

 have you looked at sparkpeople?  They have a really good program and a very active WLS group as well.  I know it isn't the same as in person, but frankly all the times I did WW I never felt there was support there.  You didn't really make friends with the people (at least I didn't) and it's not like the leader really was there for you.  I found much better "friends" and support online at sparkpeople than I ever did through WW.