Relationships!

If he keeps it up.....you WILL be sleeping with someone else.  Enough said.   Hope it works out for you!

I am so sorry. You should be more focused on being thrilled with the changes in your body and not about where the next verbal attack is coming from. I hope as you continue losing and gain more confidence it will give you strength to make it stop. Either by leaving or giving the ultimatum. Never again, or I am gone. I do agree, it is abusive. I also do not feel you should stay. But you are the one who makes that choice.

It sounds to me like he is probably the one sleeping around.

My husband is far from perfect, neither am I obviously! But he is more than supportive, and in the process I am falling in love even more. He compliments me. Is happy that I am feeling better in my own skin, he gets the side benefits of that.  He did the grocery shopping last weekend and for the first time he got on board with not buying junk for "the kids" who don't need it. And him and the kids filled the cart with all healthy food choices. Not a single piece of junk food. That is supportive. The point of that though isn't to brag about my hubby, but to show what a major difference there is between abusive and supportive love. I can't think how it is possible to be successful and happy unless you have that support. Or you kick the ******* to the curb and learn to be happy on your own, and eventually with a good person.

I do agree with Frisco, there are always 2 sides. ANd I see where he was coming from in what he said. But..if words so harsh are being exchanged regularly that is just a crap relationship that needs fixed or ended.

Hugs to you.