Get thee to a therapist! My boobs are huge but fantastic! And possibly other musings
Great post, I love your boobies too! You look awesome all around. So happy to read that you are seeing someone now, it sounds like that is a fantastic idea. Easy on friending guys from your past, can get seriously dangerous...for the marriage. I hope you get exactly what you want both from surgery, therapy and your marriage. Sounds like you are right there in the thick of things and life is a mixed bag.
Hahah, mixed bag, yes. I vary from one second to the next on what I want, how I feel, where I'm going. My therapist gave me the advice to find things to find things to relax my mind and make me feel healthy. He said that I should make these decisions from a position of health, and he's totally right. So, right now, I'm just focusing on being healthy. I can do that. I need to get to a place where I actually know what it is that I want from my life, other than being the best mom I can be. That will never change. Thank you
I have been having similar issues lately. Not with my boobs but with getting more attention than I am accustom to. It has definitely changed things. It has caused issues between my wife and i but for the time being we are working through them. One one hand I want to be like "let me go have fun" but then I remember she was with me no matter what I looked like. Still it is nice having women hit on me right in front of my wife. I did let one incident go a little too far but realized what I was doing before anything life shattering happened.
Good luck and congrats on the new boobs! They look fantastic and so do you!
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Thanks! It's just a lot. I think it's been a lot for the past couple years, and I didn't realize how much. Or something. Attention is nice to have, but it's not like I've never received attention. It's just different now, and it was even before I had a flat stomach & big boobs :) Maybe I'm just different now. Who knows? I think I've needed therapy for awhile. We all probably need therapy. Haha
