Don't Bring Negative To Me!

Hi everyone I am 2 months almost 3 post-op and yes it's true my body has changed. But my heart has NOT. I Ran Into A Family Member (my older sister) Who lives 3 blocks from me. She has not called me  or seen me since surgery. She has one of those if it has nothing to do with me attitude she doesn't care. She has been told by our mother that I have been doing wonderful. She looked me up and down and said .You have lost a lot of weight but you still have a long way to go.Now I Was Tempted To  Let Her Have It I Really Was But Instead I Told Her I See You Have So Underlined Problem That You Need Help With. And It Makes Her Feel Better To Belittle Others So I Told Her Not Even Her Negative Attitude Could Stop What God Had Planned For Me And I Told I Loved Her And Would Be Praying For Her.A Year Ago I Can Guarantee It Would Been A Different Story But I Have Changed Obviously Inside And Out!

That's right!  She's probably jealous and would like to get it dobe herself but is scared to. Keep on running to see what the end is going to be! 

Thank you Jennsumner722 all I can do is pray for her.

Good for you !!!  Don't stoop to being ugly...not being nice to others never benefits us ever !!!   Killing someone with kindness is the way to go.    Congrats on your success and I'm glad your sister saw you even though her comments weren't completely nice to you.    I bet she's jealous as well.   Keep doing with your doing and next time she probably won't recognize you !!!

Hugs and blessings ~~~ Vivian

Thank you Vivian Prouty I am trying to change for the good I can't be around negative people that contributed to me gaining weight so everyday is a battle but I know I am not alone. Thank you again for the kind words.

Glad you were able to come back with a positive and loving comment.  Don't know that I could have been that kind.  She's obviously a person who can't find it in herself to be happy for other people.  

Thank you Tracy D. I have not always been able to hold my tongue actually I had a real bad attitude but I decided to change and its unfortunate she  is bitter maybe one day she will change .But again thank you Tracy D.

Wow quite impressive! !! What a lady!!!  Like Tracy I don't know if I could have held back !! But you did the right thing!!! It's pure jealousy!!! I'm sorry you had to deal with that especially from your own sister!!! :-(

♡ Kelly

Thank you Kelly Jean like I was saying above to Tracy D. I have not always been this way. You would NOT believe the type of person I WAS but something happen in my life that taught me I didn't have to keep being a victim I found God and he never has left me down. But thank you so much for the kind words:-)

I completely agree with you I have changed soooooo much over the past 5 months my whole family has seen it ... and said it I'm a much nicer calmer  and fun person ... I think it was because we didn't like ourselves they way we do now .. and when you like you it's much easier for others to like you and things just fall into place!!! :-) keep up the great work !!!:-)

♡ Kelly