Recover time

I had my sleeve Oct 24 and I returned to work today. I'm a little tired now, but its approaching bed time and we just went thru daylight savings. 

I feel absolutely great and it's been 10 days since surgery.

I don't think it's fair for anyone to "be on" another person about weight loss surgery. If there's complications? He has to live with it, not you. I would be mortified if my significant other was pushing for me to have an elective surgery when I did not feel 100% comfortable. I would read through the "regrets" forum. Would you want him to be one of those guys?  Would you want him to hate you if something goes seriously wrong? 

I was no way forcing him. it was mentioned 4 times in the 6 yrs we have been together.