02 RNY and Gaining 50 back. HELP!!

The 5 day pouch test?? I will try that...Thanks!! I get tired alot and all my weight is in my stomach area.  I even had a tummy tuck.  I was 341 when I had my surgery in june of 2002 and then when I went back the 1st week I lost 28 pounds.  I had a RNY done by Dr. David Coster from Grinnell Iowa.  Then in January I meant Brian 2003.  We got married in june of 2004.  We moved in with my parents one year later and we are still here.  My dad died my mom got brest cancer.  Lots of bad things have happened to me.  Brian's been my blessing.  He just had the lap band done this past tuesday.  He wants to help me out.  I don't like being this big again.  I knew when I moved in here to help my ailling parents out I'd be gainning again.  This is a very stressfull thing.  We have been married now 4 years and only got to spend 1 year by ourselves.  We are sort of stuck here to help my mom out.  I get really down.  all our house stuff is in an 10 x 10 storage unit.  I think some of this is my reason why i am gaining.