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I guess in the last 15 years I have not talked to my ex hubbie. He moved way and left me with 2 very small babies. He left me for his boss lady. He took me to court wanting everything but the kids. It was ok because we had to split everything in 1/2. He didn't want to see the kids at all. So I got the full time. I took his ******g sorry ass to court and got butt loads of child support. He was a boss man at major car company. I caught him in the motel room with his boss lady so it was over for us. My daughter truned 18 on June 25th. So I knew her child support would stop. I got a cop come to my door Saturday and said I had to go to court. I ask him why. He said my ex was taking me to drop child support. I told him I know it stops she is 18. He said he didn't know but to show up or I will get in trouble for not showing up. Well I got pissed and called the D.A. at the court house. He said to call social services. Well I called them and they said I went to the court system to get child support. I ******g hate social services. They make you feel like **** on the bottom of thir shoes. Hell I worked at the health department 15 years and never treated anyone like that. So they said call the court house again. Well I called my lawyer. He said I didn't need a lawyer. All I had to do was go sign some papers. Well **** I hate getting in a croud of people. I will pass the **** out. Well they ex called me yesterday and said did I know he had to go to court. I said well yes I got to go too. I told him about all the calling I have done. Because I am ready for it to be over and then I will never have to talk to any contact with him at all. Well he called me back later and said he got in touch with his lawyer and all we got to do is go on Monday and sign a paper in her office. That made me feel better. He has not see me since I lost weight. We got to be there at 11:00. He ask me if he could come get me and go out to lunch after. I have a car. But I told him yeah. I want him to see how so very good I did with raising the kids. I am so proud they turned out good and not like me. I am nothing but one big **** up after another. I want better so much for them. I can't wait. I got the killer tan. Got to get my hair dyed. lol....I am going to look so freaking hot he will crock to see what he left me for. Him and her never did stay together. She left him the same day I did. Now after all these years he is all alone. he told me he misses the kids so bad. I remind him it is all his fault. I try to get my kids to understand and kinda just like him not even love him. But thry don't. LOL he is rich and they only want his money lol...I don't even want that. I just want him out of my life. I wonder if God has anyone out there for me. I am not a spring chicken anymore. I am 43 hott years old. lol  I only date younger men. like 27 to 35. Men my age don't like to do what I do. I love cars. The tricked out cars. Love Acuras. And I love going to concerts. lol young Geezie. NIN. Janes addiction. Love Korn. Gotta be rock. I hate country music. Be good or be good at it.

 

love you peeps

Amy

 

 

Before I reply to this post I would like to say that I saw your post a couple of days ago and you had eaten quite well, that is cool, keep it up.
 Ex's suck, we deal with my wife's ex all the time. he and Dawn and I were the best of friends before she left him 22 years ago, and he and I have gone back to being good friends for about 15 years now, this is all to my wife's dismay. She would like him to be gone forever, but having a daughter together means that will never happen. My ex is crazy so there is no problem there, she is in a home and monitored all the time.
 Be careful with your ex, you never know what his intensions might be, but I am sure you know that, I am also sure that you will WOW him, just keep in mind that there is someone out there for you who will treat you right and care for you like your ex never did. also keep up the good eating, take care.

 

If you don't feel comfortable with him I would go somewhere where you DO feel comfortable and at least know the waitresses. And if you could let the waitresses know ahead of time, they'll watch out for you..

You are not one big fu...You did really well with your kids, raised them right. You are also very very strong so I think that's a success. He's the screw up. He is the one who chucked it all for the money lady..He doesn't need you to contact the kids. he can do that on his own. Be careful. He's going to want to get to the kids through you...dont' let him. Stay out of it. They are adults and they can do what they want. You're an adult and you can do what you want..None of you has to do what he wants. If it was me..I'd see him at the attorney's office and say Bye there and never see him again. No lunch, but that's my opinion. You SURE don't have to do what I'd do.

I grew up on country and Lawrence Welk cuz my grandparents raised us. But all the pop music from my friends at school was good. Kiss, Boston, Rolling Stones, yes, and Michael Jackson..(that kid could sure dance)..all those old bands (old now...not back then) but I don't like head banger music. I listen to christian rock music. I think it keeps my head clear and my brain focused on the good things around me.

I always leaned towards older men. I don't know why. My ex is older and my dh is even older..It doesn't make any difference. I've seen the guys my age from my 30 class reunion...they're all old fat bald guys and some younger guys just ACT old. LOL. dh isn't anything like that. He's younger in his mind than they are..

Let us know how the meeting turns out.