Hi Lisa, I am so sorry that your family has such a negative attitude about WLS, ask them to please consider what your health will be if you continue to gain weight and don't do something permamant about it now while you have the chance. Tell them you're doing this to try to live a happier and healthier life , for them as well as yourself. I wish you a successful surgery. God is watching over you and we are all praying for your speedy recovery. BIGGHUGGZZZZ to you and your family, please keep us posted.