Maggie V. 21 years, 9 months ago

Hey girl, You are going to be fine. Just put your trust in the Lord and rest assure that you did nothing wrong. He should love you for who you are not what you look like. I know things are hard right now. I went through the same things in Dec. a week before Christmas. I have been there and I feel your pain. The only diff. is that I am still waiting to have surgery. My hubby has never made any comments about my weight, but I am tired of being unhealthy. We keep you in my prayers.

Julie O. 21 years, 9 months ago

Deborah - Please don't be so hard on yourself and don't blame yourself for your husbands infidelity. Remember that "YOU" did this surgery to better the quality of your life, not to enhance his. The trust in him will be hard to get back, but the personal progress you have made for yourself should make you proud of you. Good luck and I know that you will be in everyone's prayers.

kylakae 21 years, 9 months ago

Deborah, my goodness woman, you certainly have every reason in the world to be stressing out! I hope you can find a little time for yourself. Maybe even a bubblebath. I wish I could do something to help! I will send you all my love and prayers! Hang in there, girlfriend!

slspiek1215 22 years, 1 month ago

Oh my goodness. Look at you ~ you are such a hottie! Keep it up. You were beautiful before but you are incredibly beautiful now.

Yvette W. 22 years, 1 month ago

Deborah - got up this morning looking for a little inspiration and today you win the prize. You look really good and I know that I will be that way soon. I am 16 days post-op and doing great. However, it helps to hear from ong-term post-op's who are doing even better.

kylakae 22 years, 1 month ago

Deborah, *wow* girl, you look fantastic! I just love your new pics and I'm soooo happy for you. You've done a terrific job!

kylakae 22 years, 1 month ago

Deborah, congratulations on passing the century mark! Way to go!

kylakae 22 years, 4 months ago

Deborah, I wish I had some good advice for you! All I can say is, I feel your pain! Christmas has left me with lots of chocolates and junk food in the house and I've been nibbling at stuff I shouldn't, too! I'll pray for strength for you and please do the same for me! Love your guts!

2045 22 years, 8 months ago

I am 4 weeks post op I am eating cottage cheese, mashed potato with cream of broculli soup as a gravy, oatmeal& tomato soup 1/2cup at each meal 3 meals a day the rest of the day 8 oz of protein drink. Hope this helps Kathy

Sharron J. 22 years, 8 months ago

Hi Deborah, I was reading your profile, and just wanted to say congrads and hoping your feeling better,also 6 months from now go up and kick that jerk at your husband's work in the butt with a sexy pair of spiked boots lol thigh high even lol best wishes.
About Me
Hamburg, AR
Location
44.6
BMI
RNY
Surgery
09/11/2001
Surgery Date
May 18, 2001
Member Since

Before & After
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This picture was taken the day before surgery, September 10, 2001 268 lbs

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