I just had a TT in Jan and now find myself pregnant?

Ok when about 3 years ago my OBGYN told me that I had PCOS and to get pregnant it would be difficult and involve fertility meds he said. I have been with my partner for 7 years at that time and we never got pregnant. Well, after My TT in Jan I must have been fertile. We did it once unprotected, stupid I know. BUT that did it. Know my DR's are scaring me. I am just 18 months out from WLS and have been having trouble with my B12 and I faint all the time, we are still trying to get that under control. Also My plastic surgeon removed 12 pounds of skin at they time of surgery and gave me the anchor cut (I am cut from beyond hip to hop and then breast to pelvic bone) he is concerned because I am not healed on the inside so that I may tear and come undone on the inside, since it has not been 6 months. My PCP is concerned because I have a new problem with my thyroid and Before I found out I was pregnant I was already have a problem keeping me nourished, as I am not starting to feel sick in the morning. ALL 3 DOCTORS have told me that it is not advisable to me or the baby to be pregnant at this time. That until some of the other problems are solved/healed it would put a tremendous strain on myself and the baby and have recommended a surgical abortion right away. that is 3 Drs. I don't know how I feel about that. I mean I believe in abortion, for other people, not for me. I have always been told that it would be impossible for me to become pregnant and now that I am what if it never happens again? I bought some books on how to deal with a pregnancy loss through an abortion and It just makes me feel terrible. PLEASE don't bash me or preach to me. This is not what I am asking for I am asking for some imput on how to get through this. I mean a decision has to be made in the next few weeks. I should also add that during this pregnancy I have not been having the best diet. I had been off ALL my vitamins and had a few alcoholic drinks as my life has been turned upside down with the divorce of my parents, the fact that my dad has cancer throughout his body and is terminal and the recent news that I know am responsible to raise my 16 year old HIGH demand brother. I have since sworn of alcohol and started back up with my vitamins and protein shakes. I am 24 years old, with the same man for 10 years now, we are getting married this summer. AM I bad person if I decide that I should do the abortion? I want to do it the right way I want to ask my OBGYN and other DR's what I have to do to get me ready. This is a VERY hard decision any help would be appreciated. If you feel uncomfortable about posting it on the site please email me at [email protected] Nicole

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