Is it normal after WLS to have affairs?

hi i have been with my husband for 7 years and married 5 we have 2 kids and and i thought i solid marriage. my husband has always loved large women but was supotive of me when going through surgery he has always been supportive of everything i do and have done. i have reached a bit of a personal crisis as i have met up with a old flame from many years ago who went overseas before my marriage and kids so he never saw me at my largest but fairly big. anyway we have begun a afaair and i am sooo confused as i feel that my husband is not giving me the compliments and attention i seem to be desiring ...i know of course the new man will and all that but its like hes no fun and my energy for life is so big and his isnt..i understand he hasnt gone through this himself its me changing but its like i feel he thinks if he doesnt compliment me in some way itll slow my weightloss down or something. the ther night when i was dressed to meet mylover i stpped in a my usbands work i am 90kgs now and had a black number on ...he thought nite out with the girls.....he didnt complimnt or say one thing...this to me only made me more empowered as i feel he views me as a mum and a wife but not as this vibrant women i am getting in over my head as my family mean the world to me but feel that i am changing on the out and inside but he still only sees who i used to be..... is it coommon after wls to have a affair to get recognition sexually and womanly.....dont attack me this is the first time anything like this has happened and believe me its not taken lightly....its 230 am and my family are asllep in bed and i feel sick at what i am doing but also sooooo bloody happy...HELP

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