How would you react?

I know a lot of people have posted about how their husbands and family have reacted to their weight lose. I'm single and I hope that in the future after my WLS I will will find someone that I want to spend the rest of my life with. I was just thinking how horrified I would be if say that person saw an old picture of me and made rude comment not realizing it was ME in the picture. I would never hide my past I think my weight had contributed to the person I am today but it just got out of control. I have to say I would really question my feelings towards someone who made such comments. Has anyone dealt with this? Has anyone not told a new partner about their surgery...hide the scars or said it was from something else? I know I'm thinking too much...April 7th needs to get here soon.

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