What to do when you are starting to dream of better things as far as relationships?

Okay I'm 3.5 months post and I have had a boyfriend of 1 and a half years.....I love him and we've planned on getting engaged as soon as he moves out to California to be with me (which was supposed to be in this coming March). Well, all of a sudden, I find myself thinking about how I'll be skinny soon and be able to have a lot of fun. I also kinda dream about this fairytale romance that I'll have with this Prince Charming....My boyfriend has such a good heart and loves me like crazy, but he's not this fairy tale Prince Charming that I'm dreaming of. I don't know what my problem is, but I just feel like i'm being restricted from really experiencing my dreams if I stay with him....I told him this last night openly (we keep nothing from each other) and he told me that I was trying to kill him by telling him these things. I'm so confused and wondering if anyone else has been in this situation and what did you do? Please don't yell at me for being a rude witch or something, I am just being real. My honesty and realness is one of the qualities about me that my boyfriend loves.

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