How do I get my mind to relate to a new body?

I am getting ready to schedule my surgery. It probably will be done in early March. While I do not fear the actual surgery, I do fear the person I will become. Many say they cannot wait to look thin again. I have never been thin and it scares me to think about what I will look like after weight loss. I truely fear the out come. Wacky I know but I really want to get around this. I see a pdoc weekly and I know we will need to deal with it but I thought maybe some of you would offer some greeat advice. Thank you in advance.

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