My DH told me that pre WLS he was really bothered by my weight.

Mow that i'v elost nearly 1-- pooounds, my DH says that pre-WLS he was thinking of telling me that either I lost the weight or I lost him. He says my being so heavy scared him, and that he was afraid I'd end up like my mom, who was MO and died at 52 of a massive heart attack. I'm not sure how that makes me feel. I know he was concerned about me, but he was also worried about how my weight affected him...I guess it just kind of hurt, maybe because he's so tall and skinny, he has no idea what it's like to be heavy, especially mo.

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