Question:
Due for roux en y in March 2010 and getting NERVOUS
I have already done post of the pre-op tests (blood tests/bone density scan/g-scope etc) & now I am getting nervous as the time gets closer!They say you can lose up to +- 70 of excess weight-can one lose more?Has anyone started off eating a little & then forced size of pouch & putting back on?Any bad effects on the bowel movements?My husband thinks I am mad & thinks I will die-now he is making me worried!What period would one lose the most weight?Does it stabilise & then get stuck?Is exercise essential?Does your body feel & function normally (like before) or do you have days when you "feel" different in your body & think "what have I done to myself"?Anyone in South Africa who can help a nervous pre-op patient?Any comments would be appreciated! — paulamill (posted on January 19, 2010)
January 19, 2010
I am in the USA but no reason to get nervous. I am 2 weeks out and am doing
ok. It is so important to follow the dietitian and doctors orders. I have
lost over 29lbs so far and dropping. I don't think you will have any
problems. Just keep focused on loosing the weight it will happen after
surgery! TRUST ME!!
— smokeybonefan
January 19, 2010
I think that those nervous feelings are common for many of us. I had my
rny last April 1, 2009. I have lost approx. 115 lbs. and have stabilized
for the last 4-6 weeks at about 144 lbs. I'm 5'7", so this is about
where I want to end up, also wearing a size 8. Wow! The first week is a
little rough. I slept for three nights in my recliner. I couldn't climb
into our bed--it has drawers underneath, so up really high. Your husband I
hope will come around and be more supportive. You don't say how old you
are. I was 55 when I had my surgery and one day couldn't run after my
granddaughter. That was it - I wanted to be able to fit in the swing at
the play park, keep up with her, it turned my thinking around. Also my
doctor when I asked him, rny or band, said rny definitely. They know what
the success rate is for rny, how it works out down the road, etc. My
friends keep looking at me and saying how wonderful and skinny I look. One
other big item---I started back at our fitness center right after six
weeks, slowly of course, walking, bicycling, etc. Then a few weeks later,
I hired a personal trainer to help with a fitness program. I know that has
made all the difference in the world. I have muscles and don't look like a
melted ice cream cone. Sure the weight will come off, you've had your
stomach done, but you need to put forth the effort also, especially the
core muscles and your back that are all out of whack from holding up a big
stomach. Good Luck!! It is not an easy decision, no way no how. I asked
the anesthesiologist about getting off the cart on the way to the operating
room--if anyone ever had--she said oh, one or two. Then I woke up and mine
was done. Follow what your dietician says, liquids till you heal, then
soft, etc.Carol in Iowa
— CarolH1953
January 19, 2010
I AM DUE FOR MY BYPASS ON THE 3RD OF FEB. I TO AM NERVOUS AND CANT WAIT
FOR A NEW BEGINNING IT WILL BE OKAY. JUST LISTEN TO WHAT THE DR. SAYS AND
YOU TO WILL BE OKAY.
— NANALINDA56
January 19, 2010
I'm in the USA so I hope this helps you. I will be 4 years out of RNY on
3/22/10. The most I lost was 162#, 38# from goal. Then I got lazy!
Didn't exercise, wasn't following my plan, etc. I was working out of town
and over a year or so gained 50#! I signed up at Curves, went back to
basics and have dropped 28# so far. There is always some anxiety when
facing major surgery. You husband's attitude isn't helping. Just relax,
and remember why you are doing this: to improve your health and be able to
do things you cannot currently do! I go bike riding now, go swimming, can
walk more than 50' without having to stop and rest, can cross my legs, can
bend down and tie my shoes without getting winded. Exercise is extremely
important!!! You will have an 12-18 month period called the
"honeymoon period"-during this time is when you will drop the
majority of your excess weight. Also during this time is when you must
develop better eating habits, make healthier choices and exercise. Walking
is probably the most popular activity post-op. Your surgeon will let you
know when it is ok to start.
This will be a lifetime committment. One thing you can do pre-operatively
is to make up small meals according to your plan and freeze them. Doing
that helped me tremendously. Good luck with your journey. This site has
been a big help to alot of pre and post op patients.
— babs71958
January 19, 2010
Thanks to all who replied. The one comment that Barbara made, made me think
that it is possible to put weight back on!I thought that it was impossible
to put back on as you just cannot eat the amounts you used to eat.So, is it
possible that one can put all the weight back on?If so, then whats the
difference between the RNY and any other fad diet which never works
permanently!I certainly don't want to spend R100 000 (rands in South
Africa) just to have to get back to where I was!I know I would have to
change me eating habits but I honestly thought it was impossible to
regain!Has anyone found that their bowel movements have changed for the
worse.I am 41 years old & probably have to lose about 35-40Kgs to be
super thin!Can I lose ALL this weight?My BMI is just over 35.I can't stand
exercising-never enjoyed it-even when I was thin 4 years ago!Is this
essential?Is it the best thing you've ever done which you feel was worth
it.This would be the last resort as I have tried everything-I am led to
belief that this is a great tool in weight loss.Would you have to have the
self discipline like on any other diet or is it easier because you cannot
eat that much?Paula -sunny, hot South Africa!!
— paulamill
January 20, 2010
Paula, the surgery is simply a tool. It helps you lose weight as long as
you do your part. Your pouch will force you to eat little and during that
time you can learn to eat what's good for you. You will get sick if you eat
too much or too fast or eat sugar and too much fat. You can stretch your
pouch and stoma if you force the issue. You can also gain weight if you
drik during your meals. I am three years post op (RNY) and have not gained
weight back. I do eat properly and recognize the fact that if I do eat
properly and drink my water I won't have true hunger pains. If I do have
hungar pains it is probably "head hungar". Good luck to you. Keep
us posted.
— Muggs
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