Question:
im 2mo out and i have only lost 37lbs. im still fat i need some help, please!

   — kimmig (posted on December 27, 2008)


December 27, 2008
37# in 2 months is absolutely amazing!!! What did you expect? I think you need to cut yourself some slack and realize that this is not a diet, this is a life long commitment to health and wellness. Keep up the good work and you will not be fat for long. Best of luck, Dawn Vickers, RN, BLC, CLC
   — DawnVic

December 27, 2008
I agree with Dawn 100%. You are doing just great. Hang in there. It all takes time. Good luck.
   — katiecakes

December 27, 2008
If you only had 37 lb to loose you wouldnt of needed the surgery.... When have you ever lost 37 lbs in 2 months. It not how fast you get thinner its getting there.
   — urbrat2

December 27, 2008
What type of surgery did you have and what kind of weight loss did your doctor talk to you about that you don't think you have lost enough weight for. The weight you have lost in two months is a lot of weight. Do you have baggy, saggy skin? I don't want to loose my weight too fast because I can hardly bear the thought of the saggy skin. I am a Realize band patient.
   — Teresa J.

December 27, 2008
Kim there are so many things you don't say in your question. Where did you start, how much do you hope to lose? Did you really think you would lose it all in 2 months? Is there ever a time in your life that you lost 37 pounds in 2 months? You have so much to be thankful for. We all fight for every pound we lose, and you will be no different. This is no miracle, just a tool. Use your tool daily and be thankful Kim, you will get so much benefit from those two things. Keep up the good work. Water, protein and exercise are all very important right now. I lost an average of 2 pounds per week over a year, one day at a time, one week at a time, one meal at a time, and one mile at a time. You will too if you stick with it. Take care, Patricia P.
   — Patricia P

December 27, 2008
Hi! You are doing great! You are still fat for two reasons...one, the weight doesn't come off with a flick of the knife. You have to lose the fat. it takes time. I have lost 83 pounds and it has taken me 6 months to do so. Can you imagine losing it all in a month? Your body would probably go into shock! 2., You will still see yourself fat, even when you are not. I still see myself in pictures and think, wow I am still so fat. I weigh 145 and am not really all that heavy, but my mind still sees the fat me. It takes time for your minds eye to catch up. Take this time to re learn to eat properly and enjoy the ride. In 6 months (from surgery) you will wonder what all the fuss was about.. Remember -to lose slower gives you time to tone up undamaged skin! Good luck and congrats!! hugs, Kim
   — gpcmist

December 27, 2008
Kim congradulations.37 lbs is a lot in 2 months. First and formost.... Loosing too fast will leave you unhealthy and lots of loose skin. MUST drink water and excerise. Walk walk walk...no sugar of any kind even sugar free jello. As you know the weight didn't get there over night. Surely, your doctor and nurses told you this. I have so much material from my doctor and nurses along with we are required to attain classes and haven't even had my surgery yet. Attending those classes tells us what to eat and what to expect. The band is a tool as well as the gastric surgery. Support groups like this is good also. Dr.Fang/Dr. Juarz are wonderful. Good luck.
   — Eneleh

December 28, 2008
You must give yourself a year...You didn't really expect to be thin in two months, did you? Okay so I think many of us think we'd see a huge change right away and when we don't we think we're doing bad or not enough...But 37 lbs is good! I didn't see any big change until I lost 60 lbs...after that it seemed like I was just melting...Give yourself time...at least a year! It took me 15 ish months before I lost all that I was going to lose...(150 total from 315lbs)
   — .Anita R.

December 28, 2008
Rome wasn't built in a day, and neither was KIM! be patient! LOL ;-) 37 pounds in 2 months is GREAT! Keep up the good work. Hugh
   — hubarlow

December 28, 2008
You are doing fine. Everyone who posted is right. 37 pounds 2 months post-op is great. Weight loss takes time and effort. And are you exercising? The surgery isn't the cure to weight loss. You have to follow the program and also exercise as much as you can. You can do this but remember it won't happen overnight; be patient. Do your best to stick to your program. Good Luck and God Bless, vinnigirl
   — vinnigirl

December 29, 2008
Hi, just hang in there, you are doing fine....as the old saying goes, Rome was not built in a day! It is going to take time to get the weight off, does not come off over night. Keep the faith, and follow what your doctor says, and you will see the results. Some times your scales may not show the weight you are losing, but the tape measure will show your loss also...have to give your body time to adjust and catch up with the weight losts. Good Luck and Best Wishes for a Healthy New year. Farmgirl58
   — Farmgirl58




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