Cindy C.

Obesity & Me

Describe your behavioral and emotional battle with weight control before learning about bariatric surgery.

I had been overweight since childhood and I gained over 100 pounds during my marriage. Being a woman that is large is hard in our society. So much is focused on your body and I could never imagine getting to a healthy weight. My weight caused great depression, lack of self esteem. It controlled my life. I didn't want to participate in anything. I had given up on all the diets, weight loss centers and other gimmicks. Nothing had worked for me and thought nothing ever will - I had accepted that this body will be with me forever!

What was (is) the worst thing about being overweight?

The way that people view you. I had a job interview and when I walked in - their eyes seemed to stare. I wanted to walk out. I knew the position was a visible one within that company and I didn't fit the body mold that they were expecting. The comments from children and others.

If you have had weight loss surgery already, what things do you most enjoy doing now that you weren't able to do before?

Believe this - I exercise 5 days a week at work and I like it! I use a rower for 30 minutes of cardiovascular and 30 minutes of strength training. It is wonderful. My wardrobe has changed and I can't wait to even lose more.

How did you first find out about bariatric surgery and what were your initial impressions of it?

I had watched Entertainment Tonight with the segment about Carney Wilson. I went to the website that was referred on the program. I researched the Internet and read some articles, but I was SCARED! I have been through so many failures in my life - would this fail me as well? I would have to take vitamins every day, eat protein, no carbonated beverages - to live without soda - How could I possibly do that. Well about a year later, it was still on my mind and Carney Wilson looked fantastic - I had come to terms that I needed to do something and this was my last resort.

What was your stay in the hospital like? How long where you there? What things are most important to bring?

I am a hospital employee and I thought the nursing staff was so wonderful! I had a few problems - the surgeon sends his patient's for a swallow test which is done in Radiology - 1 day postop. The substance that you must drink is gastrogaffin and they watch it as it goes through your digestive system. Besides this substance, being the worst stuff on earth - I failed the test. It wouldn't progress past my stomach. They tilted the table sat me up - nothing would work. Then sent me upstairs to wait it out. Only problem is I threw up everybit of the gastrogaffin. Another thing was my IV blew - I was a pin cushion and after three nurses trying, heating packs on both of my arms - a resident decised to put in a femoral line at 2:00 a.m. Day number 3 - it was a repeat of the day before. I was sent down for the test - which I failed again and more vomiting. I was given ice chips - which were the best tasting ice chips I have ever had! Day number 4 I was on call for the OR. I was so happy that this problem might be fixed. It was mucous blocking the exit from the new pouch. Day number 5 - more ice chips and this wonderful substance called JELLO! Who could have thought jello could be so good? I was discharged home that afternoon and we went right to bed, my husband and I and the 3 cats. Life is good!

Did you have any complications from the surgery? If so, how did you deal with them?

None other than pulling an abdominal muscle. I probably did that trying to get in and out of bed. I bought an abdominal binder which helped quite a bit.

In the weeks after you got your surgery date, how did you feel? How did you cope with any anxiety you might have felt?

I was exhausted. I would go to vacuum the living room and then go take a nap. I really didn't have any anxiety. I had an online support group and what I was experiecing seemed to be normal.

What aftercare support group/program do you have? How helpful/important is this?

The Obesity Center has a support group. They all seem like wonderful people and have some helpful hints. I think support groups are greatly needed because it is helpful to talk to others who have gone through this journey.

What is your scar like? Is this what you expected?

I had my procedure done LAP. I have 6 short scars which are still red, but they are faiding. It is just want I expected.

Please describe any plateau experiences you have had since surgery.

None so far, but I still have a long way to go.

Do you notice people treating you any differently now?

People are noticing the weight loss, but I still think there are others out there who can be mean to people who are obese.
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