How did you first find out about bariatric surgery and what were your initial impressions of it?

I'd heard about it for years but in talking with my psychologist, he mentioned I might be a good candidate. I was a little scared at first but the more I researched it, the more I wanted to have it done. I checked with my family physician due to the many medical problems I was having, he ran some tests and within a couple of months the deed was done. For me, it has been a life saver. I would do it again in a New York minute.

Describe your experience with getting insurance approval for surgery. What advice, if any, do you have for other people in this stage?

I was very fortunate to have my insurance expedite my surgery. Apparently CIGNA in other states is particularly difficult to deal with

What was your first visit with your surgeon like? How can people get the most out of this meeting?

The doctor made me feel very confident and at ease. I would suggest coming prepared with any and all questions you have about the surgery and post op eating.

What made you finally decide to have the surgery?

Sat on a dining room chair and broke it. That was the "straw that broke the camel's back) so to speak.

What was your stay in the hospital like? How long where you there? What things are most important to bring?

The hospital stay was absolute Hell. The nursing staff were not at all attentive, I was left laying in urine soaked sheets for hours, received no help walking at any time. Not happy with hospital services at all. Would be very wary about going there again.

Did you have any complications from the surgery? If so, how did you deal with them?

Only breathing problems. Had to have respiratory therapy twice. My bed was in a constant "U" shape which did not lend itself to deep breating exercises.

In the weeks after you got your surgery date, how did you feel? How did you cope with any anxiety you might have felt?

Mine went fast, was supposed to go at end of May 2001, after visit with doc on Monday, surgery was set for Wednesday. Not enough time to get upset. Too ill to care at that point. Gallbladder had to come out ASAP.

What aftercare support group/program do you have? How helpful/important is this?

Obesityhelp.com. It is very important to me. I go online often and am able to answer questions for others and ask questions I have as well. No one tries to "be a doctor" easy questions are answered, others are referred back to their own doctors ASAP.

What is your scar like? Is this what you expected?

About 6-8 inches long, very neat and tidy. I'm not bothered by it but then again I'm 52, I think a young lady might be upset by its size.

Please describe any plateau experiences you have had since surgery.

Im on a plateau right now - hate it. Also, interestingly, my sense of taste has changed since the surgery and this seems to be very common. I have to force water down. I like Fiji the best, no wierd taste to it, just refreshing.

Do you notice people treating you any differently now?

Not yet, have only lost 50# to date, long way to go before anyone outside the family will notice.