How did you first find out about bariatric surgery and what were your initial impressions of it?

I met a friend online who had the DS surgery. After hearing her story, and researching it on my own (mainly this site), I knew it was completely for me.

What was your stay in the hospital like? How long where you there? What things are most important to bring?

I was at Palms of Pasadena in St. Petersburg, Florida. I was there 4 days. It was WONDERFUL. The staff couldn't have been better. The rooms were private and my husband was allowed to stay with me the entire time in the room. They even had a pull out chair bed for him to sleep in.

Did you have any complications from the surgery? If so, how did you deal with them?

I was the model patient. No complications whatsoever.

In the weeks after you got your surgery date, how did you feel? How did you cope with any anxiety you might have felt?

How did I feel when I got my date? Elated.. Scared.. excited.. Overjoyed. From Research to consult to surgery date was less than 2 months for me - i didn't have much time to dwell on it. The night before I broke down a bit in fear, but I think that is completely normal as this was my first stay in the hospital for anything.. ever.

What aftercare support group/program do you have? How helpful/important is this?

Dr. Butler has monthly support group meetings - however, I'm not able to make many due to my work travel schedule. I visit the doc every 6 weeks. Aftercare is what YOU make of it. With such a drastic surgery, I decided it was up to ME to make it work, and that has been my mindset and what has worked for me. This website is also a great place to come as well, to help others through their journey as well as ask questions about your own journey.

What is your scar like? Is this what you expected?

My scar is very small, very thin, about 5.5 inches. It has faded nicely and not keloided much. I expected worse, frankly!

Please describe any plateau experiences you have had since surgery.

I have plateaued many many many times. I try not to be a slave to the scale. If my clothes are getting looser, I know I'm on the right track! Exercise and water seems to be the best way to get out of a plateau. (As well as a meal of pizza or something that I technically shouldn't be eating - that also seems to break plateaus, strangely enough.)

Do you notice people treating you any differently now?

ABSOLUTELY! I don't stand out in a crowd anymore, except in a positive way. I have always had a pretty face, and instead of the weight being noticed now, that is what is noticed. I also seem to be more respected by my male coworkers.